ok theres this guy i was flirting with he asked me out i said yes but then about 3 days later i hear 4rm his best friend that he has another girlfriend and that he was gonna dump me on friday so i dumped him then i decided that i shouldnt go by what other ppl say so i ask him back out he said yes but then a week later on FRIDAY he dumped me i was so sad i started crying then on monday he tells me hes sorry and wants me back i said ill think about but then the next day today he send me an email saying nevermind him and the other girl are going back out but i really like
him what should i do
2006-08-01 08:59:01 · 20 answers · asked by im spoiled 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
Forget about him. yo-yo relationships can never survive in the end.
2006-08-01 09:03:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm guessing your a teenager, so I will say this, don't worry about it, plenty of other guys outh there, I'm sure. At some point in your Jr/Sr highschool days if he comes around, and still wants a date, and you are still friendly with eachother, take a shot, even if it does not work out, atleast you would have had the experience of at least 1 date, maybe 2 with him. You are so young, I would concentrate more on studies, and a hobby or something like Art, Music, Atletics etc. if he is interested in you still, and likes what he sees in you with your talents, and treats you decently, then go for it. Best of luck.
2006-08-01 16:13:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me straighten this out for you.
THE GUY IS A JERK!
Why do you "really like him?" He asked you out and then dumped you before you could even have a relationship. Then he asks you back and changes his mind the next day when things work out with another girl. He doesn't care about you. He cares about HIMSELF. You're lucky that he's only wasted a couple weeks of your time, and not several years. Just stop wasting your time with this guy and move on. There are too many nice guys out there for you to waste your time on a jerk. Even if he comes back crawling (when the other girl comes to her senses and dumps him)....walk away.
Good luck!
2006-08-01 16:08:57 · answer #3 · answered by Pumpkin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know this is not what you are going to want to hear but tell him to screw off. I am saying this out of personal experience because I did that same thing for 3 yrs with a guy. Because people would tell me stuff about him that was not true or he would break up with me. But most of the time I broke up with him and it hurt me to let him go but I knew it was the right thing. Ok it sounds to me like this guy is not someone you should waste your time on. But it is your choice because in the end your the one that has to deal with it.
2006-08-01 16:14:41 · answer #4 · answered by girl in love 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wish you had included your age. I have two daughters I am a dad, a very protective dad. My daughters are fairly young right now, one is thirteen, She does not seem to have that kind of interest yet, but I have noticed her having a crush on a teacher.
He is a good person though because if he wasn't I would have him experience the full weight of the law.
The other daughter is eight.
when it comes the right time for dating though I would like them to think enough of themselves to make the right choices.
I think you will do right by yourself developing poise and good grace, making of yourself a girl who is able to choose right.
If you develop the right character, you would reach a point where you would only choose from the cream of the crop. lose the losers, don't let them turn you into one.
2006-08-01 16:22:25 · answer #5 · answered by theodore r 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
FORGET THAT IDIOT. He is just treating you like trash. Just get over him, and he is just messing around with you. If you really like him, well im sorry to hear that but try to forget him because he will do this over and over. Im sure you will find another guy, I bet there are other guys that like you! Forget over him and move on. ; )
And by the way, add some periods please.
PS: Good luck! ; )
2006-08-01 16:08:50 · answer #6 · answered by ♦♫қ!lVl♫♦ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all he wants is a piece of butt and your willing I'm not saying sex but at that age he'll get what he can get. my advice is date him but don't get too attached to anybody really until after high school find a guy have fun and when its over move on don't linger around with him or make friends it usually never works out and it all ends with you upset and him finding his next prey
2006-08-01 16:09:10 · answer #7 · answered by captspankey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy is a player, so one thing I can guarantee you is that you'll get nothing but heartache from him if you keep dating him. Kick his sorry @$$ to the curb and find a guy that'll treat you right.
2006-08-01 16:03:44 · answer #8 · answered by sarge927 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find something else to focus on besides that guy, for cryin' out loud.
2006-08-01 16:03:18 · answer #9 · answered by IthinkFramptonisstillahottie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go on living. A good guy will apear . Just have patience.
2006-08-01 16:04:50 · answer #10 · answered by Konstantine 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋