i had HUGE crush on a guy that I work with......then i found out that he is gay and he found out that I Iike him..we agreed to be friends and swapped numbers but is it ok to be friends with a gay guy that I still kinda have a crush on???
2006-08-01 08:27:15 · 10 answers · asked by confusedgirl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
confused - confused says it all...
2006-08-01 08:36:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course you can still be friends with him..just because he likes the same gender does not mean he is not human. I know lots of people that have gay friends. Just dont get to close in the crush you have with him because remember he does not go for girls.
2006-08-01 15:45:39 · answer #2 · answered by ♥omgitskris♥ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
aww its like the show will and grace.... lol no but seriously its ok to have a gay friend but the fact that hes gay and you like him means its going no where for you in the love department. gay friends are the best specially if they are the opposite sex than you. they can help you with your problems but if you cant see yourself as just friends then its useless to you. it seems alittle shallow but it would be going no where cuz no one is gonna straighten up for just a day.
2006-08-01 15:33:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its fine as long as you understand that your crush will NEVER go anywhere. I have several gay friends and we're great friends (however I've never "liked" any of them, so...).
What people never seem to understand is that sexual orientation doesn't change the person ... just who they sleep with! The person, their insights, opinions, likes & dislikes are going to be the same regardless of with whom or how often they have sex.
2006-08-01 15:34:52 · answer #4 · answered by Brutally Honest 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Heck yeah its ok. Will and Grace I'd love to have a gay friend.
2006-08-01 15:33:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure, be his 'f@g hag'.
It'll be great. Lots of women wish they had a gay guy as a friend.
2006-08-01 15:41:48 · answer #6 · answered by gideon9595 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your a girl, that's ok i guess.... i personally dont like gays, or at least, the very verbal ones who like to describe in detail their "activety" with other people but like who you like girl i think thats ok i guess...
2006-08-01 15:32:36 · answer #7 · answered by peters3965 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think so.
He's not leading you on, and you like him personally, so I think you could be great friends.
2006-08-01 15:32:39 · answer #8 · answered by niffer's mom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea...gay guyz make great friendz
2006-08-01 15:33:48 · answer #9 · answered by Patty's Tat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to change his mind. Turn him to the dark side! ;)
By the way, thanks for my 1000th point.
2006-08-01 15:32:33 · answer #10 · answered by inaccord18 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋