I'm 16 and never had a boyfriend before by my choice the guy i do love is one of my best friends and is totally clueless. I don't want to ruin what we have but my closest friend says she knows he is in to me because he is a total flirt when i'm around him I'm really confused and could use some advice
2006-08-01 08:25:32 · 4 answers · asked by kat 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
well first off, good for you! you dont hear bout alot of 16 yr olds that have never had boyfriends!
next, i would suggest talkin to your friend, the boy i mean. if he is your friend then just be open and honest. let him know that you like him, but are worried about ruining the close friendship you have already. it sounds a lil scary but in my opinion its the only way to find out wats goin on, or could be goin on, for sure. be brave! lol! arrange a time when its just u n him hangin out. jus tell him wat u wrote in your question. see wat he says. if he's your best friend then he should be honest with you.
be a lil prepared for an answer you dont wanna hear tho. will you still be able to be just his friend after you talk to him? its a tough situation, but if its that important to you, just do it!
good luck sweety! *hugs*
2006-08-01 08:40:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
10 points for the advice above
2006-08-01 08:44:18 · answer #2 · answered by gideon9595 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you get your closest friend to ask him if he likes you?
2006-08-01 08:39:43 · answer #3 · answered by Cina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dunno i guess follow ur heart r jus stop obsessing over the guy if u aint gonna do nothin about it
2006-08-01 08:32:37 · answer #4 · answered by Matthew 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋