2006-08-01 08:19:46 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Oh No, don't tell them. Do what that retard black chick did and have the baby in the bathroom toilet stall during her prom. Wrap it up and throw it in a dumpster. Then go back to the dance like nothing ever happened. Yea, that's what idiots do. Give it a shot you ho.
2006-08-01 08:26:20 · answer #1 · answered by mslorikoch 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Yes you should tell them ASAP..Things can go wrong even early in pregnancy such as you could have a tubal baby and if you do then it can kill you.
I know you are scared because I was 16 when I got pregnant and when I told my parents I had my best friend with me. The best thing for you to do is tell whatever parent you are closest to and who you think will react the best and try to have a close friend with you or the babies father is he is sticking around.
You should check out justmommies.com it is a site for moms of all ages including teens, you should check out the teen pregnancy and teen mommies boards for help and support.
Please ignore everything YingYang said. Ying Yang you should be shamed telling someone to go murder a baby and how dare you even say what you said you ******* bastard. Just because you get pregnant at 16 does not make you a bad person and if you think so then go jump off a ******* cliff *****
2006-08-01 08:37:00 · answer #2 · answered by Chrissy_Lynn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's one heck of a tough call. Other people really can't answer that.
If you live in a state with parental notification laws, your parents will find out regardless of your choice.
If you decide to get an abortion, and your parents aren't horribly opposed to such things, then I suggest telling them. They'll be able to help you through it (although yes, they will most likely try to change your mind). If you think long and hard about it, and decide for an abortion and know they would freak out... maybe an aunt or other family member can support you at that time. Don't try to go it alone.
If you decide to keep it, you'll eventually have to tell them. Yes, they might be disappointed at first, they'll probably cry and threaten any young man involved with you... but unless they've got major problems (and you're the only one here who knows if they do) they will eventually come around and be supportive.
My advice? Unless your parents will react violently to it, tell them. They have your best interest at heart, even if it doesn't seem like it. Don't let them make the decisions for you, but allow them to give their opinions and offer help. It never hurts to have someone love you and want the best for you.
2006-08-01 08:28:09 · answer #3 · answered by Kiari 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You Should Tell Your Parents And If You Didn't Tell Them They Gonna Find Out Anyways..I Think Your B/f Should Be With You While You Telling Them He Need To Tell Them thats He Will Take Care Of You N the Baby 2..
2006-08-01 08:59:37 · answer #4 · answered by ❀Mother Of 2❀ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES, YES, YES!!! DO IT TODAY!!!
Have your mother make an appointment IMMEDIATELY with an OB/GYN. YOU need to have prenatal care for this entire pregnancy!
Since you are only 16 yrs old, it probably will be considered a High Risk Pregnancy. YOU need special care and monitoring throughout the entire time. Watch your diet, sugar, salt, blood pressure, weight gain etc.
I am sure there are other Social Service organizations that help with this type of situation - Teenage Pregnancy - Planned Parenthood, Local Pregnancy Centers, Department of Human Services, Child & Family Services, Juvenile Services etc.
YOU should consider getting into some type of counseling. Contact your Local Mental Health Clinic to make an appointment.
2006-08-01 08:24:42 · answer #5 · answered by jennifersuem 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes definitely. I have been in the same situation and you should know that they will be there to support you after they get over how pissed they are. Just don't be scared and prepare yourself for their anger and dissapointment. Make the right decision for you. For me it was to keep the baby. And we're all fine now. It was never the end of the world. I finished high school and started working. Now my daughter will be six soon and is just fine. Yoiu'll be fine. You do need to tell them for health reasons also. If you decide to keep the baby you should see a OB/Gyn asap. And if you don't then you'll want to get it taken care of asap.
2006-08-01 08:25:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Another dumb teenager! Do yourself a favor and have an abortion! Use birth control!! You could already have an STD!! What is the matter with all of you! I feel sorry for your child, to have a child as a parent! In this day and age there is NO EXCUSE for you to wind up preggie!! Deal with what you have made for yourself!! Why should your parents have to suffer through helping you when you've been so STUPID! They should kick you out on your *** and let you fend for yourself!! Damn idiot! Do you think at all?
2006-08-01 08:30:47 · answer #7 · answered by wishiwereatthebeach 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell them. It is important to let them know that this is going on. They will of course be upset that you are having a baby so young but if they care for you and love you enough then they should be supportive of you and help you make the tough choices that will be coming. Also you should inform the boy and his parents too for it is his child as well and he should be in on some of these choices for the wellfare of the child.
2006-08-01 08:23:42 · answer #8 · answered by taljalea 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you should tell your parents. If you cant tell them you need to find a close adult to talk to so they can help you. You could try a friends parent, a co-worker, someone at your school, at your church. If none of these work look in you yellow pages of your phone book for help. there should be some annoymous numbers you can call.
Get the help you need before it is too late!
2006-08-01 08:24:00 · answer #9 · answered by josie_14_14 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. They may be upset at first but they do love you and they will be there for you. You need to tell them and start going to the doctor so that you will have a healthy baby. The longer you wait the more upset they will be that you didn't tell them. You will start showing and they will know anyway so go ahead and get it over with.
2006-08-01 08:27:48 · answer #10 · answered by victoriaelaine2004 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG they are definitevely gonna flip, but also going to support you. Yes you HAVE to tell them, you are gonna still be living under the same roof, and one way or another they are gonna find out, better if it is bc you told them, don't just let your belly reveal your secret, take responsibility, and act like a woman, which you aren't, but you are gonna start to behave like one, since you have a child on the way...and get that Bf of yours to face the situation too
2006-08-01 08:25:36 · answer #11 · answered by Baby Ruth habla español 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋