but when he buys goodies he actually hides them in his room!! Is that fair??
2006-08-01 08:04:53 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
no
2006-08-01 08:08:26 · answer #1 · answered by heidielizabeth69 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it is not, would just be upfront and tell him to either pay a portion of the grocery bill, or share his food. If it gets bad, just buy what you need for a day or so, I realize that can be a pain to deal with. But we have had to deal with situation like this before, and that is how it helped us. We would buy stuff for a day or so, and then she would grip because there was not enough food in the house; I just told her to either go to the store and pay portion of the grocery bill.
2006-08-01 15:11:51 · answer #2 · answered by honeychild4u2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No i'm afraid thats not fair at all. You need to talk to him and explain the situation. I'm sure he'l understand. If not try telling him to pay his way at the beggining of each work. If he's unemployed may be £20 a week. Try talking to himand your boyfriend together i'm sure it'l be fine.
2006-08-01 15:10:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is an an adult he needs to pay his way. If he is still school age I think you should get over it. My brother is stays with us he is in high school. He is treated like he is my child. If my husband had a problem with it he would be the one to leave not my brother.
2006-08-01 16:11:31 · answer #4 · answered by doodle6401 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It isn't fair but depending on how old he is a bit of selfishness is to be expected. If he is over 19...and doesn't share that is rude.
2006-08-01 16:21:37 · answer #5 · answered by LongAgo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pay for him to watch "You, Me, and Dupree" and then tell him afterward that it's funny in the movies, but in real life, it stinks. Then of course, move to buying only healthy food that no one likes.
2006-08-01 15:17:37 · answer #6 · answered by Jay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no it isn't fair, that is being stingie. if he can't share his tell him don't bring stuff in your house and leave yours alone. it's only right to ask someone if they would like something but if you are buying and he is taking without asking, he needs to go!!!!
2006-08-01 15:13:06 · answer #7 · answered by rosehughey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i had the same problem... my solution... i bought groceries for me and only me and put them where he did not have access to them... after a while my bf realized he was buying his own groceries but not getting to eat very much because his bro was munching them up... bf put a stop to it pronto.
2006-08-01 15:11:22 · answer #8 · answered by Patti B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jurrasic Edna.. How FUNNY!!
I would suggest to your live in that he either start chipping in for groceries or he share what he buys...
2006-08-01 15:08:59 · answer #9 · answered by sea_sher 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kick him out, the waste of space
2006-08-01 15:08:35 · answer #10 · answered by villafan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put a padlock on your fridge and don't tell him the combo. That would be funny.
2006-08-01 15:08:32 · answer #11 · answered by Lindsay 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋