should i get an abortion?

Question

im only 16 about to be 17 and me and this guy only just got back to gether but im pregnant and its his brothers baby i dont want to tell him cause he might brakup wit me and i really want this to work out i kinda want to keep it but then i kinda want to get an abortion cause im only a teenager an d i dont want to ruine my reputation

Answer 1

u should just tell both of them and ur parents they might get mad but they will support u no matter what u should not kill ur own baby cherrish it and if they both walk out on u then find some one that will love u and ur baby. reputation has nothing to do with love.
but if they do walk out dont get upset that just means they arent your true love you will find someone theres a person for everyone.

Answer 2

You Know What Abortion Its Wrong But,Some Times You Need It...You Should Think At The First Place Before Having Sex With Any Guy...!!!And I Think You Should Have Baby Only When You Married From Your Husband Not b/f..Cuz B/f Just For Now Like Ya Killing Time Together...B/f Can Leave You At Any Time..but,Husband Its Way Different Husband Mean One Life Together..Just Think About This If You Have The Baby Who's Gonna Take Care Of Him..?Baby Need A Mother N Father Together..Not A Single Mom..And Those Days Their Is Alot Of Single Moms ...So Do Whats best For You..Its Ur Choose Hun..Good Luck,.,.

Answer 3

Your situation is definitely sticky and puts you in a difficult position. However, you made the mistake of having sex and now you have to deal with the consequences. I don't mean deal with it like take the escape and have an abortion. That would be something you would regret for the rest of your life. Be more mature and live up to what you have ahead of you. Life is not always peachy and easy. These are times that will help shape you and help you grow as a person. You will look back on this someday and realized it has helped you grow. If you are not mature or responsible enough (which it doesn't really sound like you are) to be a mother and raise a baby, then give him/her up for adoption so that another family can be blessed and give it a loving nurturing home. And please learn from this. Take Care~

Answer 4

No one can tell you whether to have an abortion. It's your decision and yours alone, but please don't worry about your reputation over your baby. You have more important things to consider now than what people think about you. If you don't know what to do, find a Planned Parenthood, women's center, or the like where you live and go and talk to someone about your situation and to discuss your options. All I can say is please make an informed decision and if you decide to have an abortion, please do it as early as possible. Please also consider adoption, but only after you know what it's all about and if you know you'd be able to give the baby up. It's not fair to adoptive parents to tell them you'll give them your baby and then change your mind (I have never been in your situation, but even still, I know giving my child to someone else would be incredibly difficult. But I'd also know I was giving it a chance for a better life if I was in your situation.)

Please think your options through very carefully and don't let anyone else make the decision for you. Hopefully you've learned something from this, but please be more careful from now on and please don't consider abortion as a birth control method (not saying you are but there are many girls/women out there who get pregnant time and time again and have repeated abortions because they don't want to abstain, get on birth control, use a condom, etc.)

Answer 5

Abortion is killing your child. If you do not want any kids being as young as you are you should have not even had sex in the first place...simple as that.

Just give the baby up for adoption that would be the best thing for the child.

In the future stop having sex or use all forms of birth control, and learn to have respect for yourself and not sleep with all these boys...especially those kin to each other...that makes you look really bad in a male's perspective. Reputation...you do not have one since you already slept 2 brothers and got pregnant by one. You need to learn to think with your head not with your legs opened.

Answer 6

You need to tell your parents or preferably someone older that you can trust, for example someone in your church. Please consider ALL your options before abortion. There are thousands of wonderful parents in the States who can't have children and who are willing to adopt and give your baby a very good home and a chance at a great future. A baby's life begins at conception and to abort a baby is killing, plain and simple. There are great organizations that can help you. Please contact 1-866-942-3678 - they're a nation wide adoption organization and will explain the benefits to you. Another big plus if you decide to give your baby up for adoption is that all medical services are covered and you're very well looked after. The last thing you should worry about now is your reputation, your baby's life is at stake, please do the right thing. God bless.

Answer 7

hey i understand what your going thorugh. I am 15 and i am 8 weeks pregnat at first i was worried about what people would think, if my boy friend would stick around, and if i could finish school. Now i dont care what people think i made the choice to spread my legs and i'm gonna keep my baby, my boyfriend stuck around and now we are happily married,and if school is too much to handle then i'll drop out and get my GED. There are more options if you donyt think you can make it in school then you can get home schooled or go talk to your doctor and get homebound then you can be with your baby and if you dont think you can spourt it then get off your lazy a*s and get a job. if your really worried abut your rep don't get an abortion then what would ppl think of you they would think of you as a pice of s**t i no my cuz got one and hats what hr rep turned out as. If your boyfriend does leave you he don't care about you and hes a pice of s**t. Sorry for being so mean and rude but thats how it is. best of luck.

Answer 8

wow your right. you're reputation is so much more important than not killing a completely innocent baby whose only reason for being here to begin with is the fact that you played grown up. ( note the sarcasm ). I was 17 when I got pregnant and didn't know who the dad was until after it was born. my bf still loved me, still loves me, is now even married to me. if the love between your bf and you is there, its there, if it's not there, it will never be there and killing your baby will not change that. besides people would look at you for being a better person for taking on your responsibilities rather than aborting them. looks like it's time to grow up.

Answer 9

I say follow your heart and if you feel like you can live with having an abortion, you should. Do not bring an innocent child into this world if you do not want it.
Forget about your reputation, and forget about your boyfriend for now. Do you feel ready to raise a child?
It takes 18 yrs and a lot of money. People can say what they want, but I say if you want an abortion, do it.

Answer 10

my advice would be to have the baby....dont worry about your reputation...once your outta high school you'll forget about everyone and everyone will forget about you (except for close friends)....your rep isnt worth the life of a baby....i'll warn you i dont agree with abortions unless theyre necessary....and to have an abortion to keep a rep isnt a good reason....once you have your baby you'll love her soooo much you'll thank yourself for not doing it....my son is 8 months and i dont know what i would do without him! my friend got pregnant when she was 15...she still graduated and her son is 4 now....yea ppl talked the first week after they found out she was pregnant but you know how ppl are....after a week the news is old and no one cares....everyone will want to feel the baby kick and go to your babyshower! so believe me it wont be that bad! good luck and congrats!

Answer 11

girl u dont ruined ur rep. most ppl can tell if a teen is pregnant by how thay act and stuff and u need to tell him and stuff ur the one sleeping with ppl not us. and no u should not get an abortion. that is murder and is not good on ur body. getting an abortion can kill u witch ppl that get abortions need to die anways but thats my point of view. but if u were so worried about getting pregnant u should learn to keep ur legs closed next time.