I have two young beautiful sons aged 2 and 3 they are my world.
my husband works all the hours he can....i love him soooooo.....
but i feel like i never have time for myself. does anyone understand. does anyone know how i can stop getting so tired. and be the perfect mum...and wife without getting ratty . Maybe its just impossible. and i should stop moaning and get on with it,,
Thank you to you all for any advice you can give xxxxx
2006-08-01 07:24:24 · 8 answers · asked by angelamcaulay 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i have 3 kids 1 with behavioul social and phicalogical problems. it is very dificult to find time for you and your partner,if you have any good frainds or family around,ask if someone will have for one night a week or fortnight so you can have some you time.when you get them settled for the night if this is possible have a relaxing bath together and chill
2006-08-01 07:47:58 · answer #1 · answered by gothmother02 1 · 4⤊ 1⤋
I have a 20 yr old, a 10 yr, and a 2 yr old, all boys. You do need time to yourself every once in awhile. You will be no good to anyone if you come down ill or something. Ask you hubby, who is probably tired from all the hours at work and not at home, to stay home with the little ones for a couple of hours at least once a month so you can do whatever - take a bath by candlelight, go catch a movie, get some sleep, read a book. You do need some time to you sweetie, it's not always depression, just a need for a change of scenery and some valuable sleep.
2006-08-01 14:35:19 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make an appointment with your doctor. It could be depression, anemia or even your thyroid (among other things). Take the boys to the park and play or go on walks with them . . . every little bit of extra exercise you can squeeze in could do wonders as well.
Good luck and take care!
2006-08-01 14:30:03 · answer #3 · answered by Angie P. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um i think u should set up a plan for Ur life like get a piece paper and plan with your family or talk to someone who u r really close with
2006-08-01 14:38:54 · answer #4 · answered by ABI S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Send them to a good nursery for a morning once a week, make a bit of time for yourself :) .. and yeah, what they all say too!
2006-08-01 14:38:22 · answer #5 · answered by Mickenoss 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to the health shop and buy some ginseng capsules, theyll perk you up after a few weeks of taking them
2006-08-02 20:48:53 · answer #6 · answered by Mercy J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try exercising i know it sounds stupited but exercising both u and ur sons will tire u out and u will become tired and will want to sleep
2006-08-01 15:23:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
red bull-gives u wings
2006-08-01 14:40:19 · answer #8 · answered by bored2tears234 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋