Is it possible for a human to remain a virgin until they marry?

Question

What if they marry later in life?

Answer 1

I am 44, single, never married, and Total Virgin.

so yes, it's possible.

Not desirable and certainly not by choice but possible.

If you are some kind of stud hunk it might be more difficult.

Answer 2

Yes. It is purely algebraic. For any A to remain B until X happens, as long as it is possible for a B to be an A until X, then the converse is also true. Therefore as long as a virgin can be a human until marriage, a human can also be a virgin. I think.
All the various systems of the human body must be used to remain viable. If you never walk, your legs will get weak. If you don't speak, your lips, tongue and vocal cords will not develop the needed skills. Sorry, but I can't continue writing this answer. Something wet in my eyes...

Answer 3

I did it, and it wasn't easy!

There is no more a mystical force causing people to involuntarilly have sex, than there is forcing them to eat cheesecake. Its simply a desire.

Our sex drive is the same kind of impulse behavior that leads to binge eating. I'd bet money that if a proper study was done, the same parts of the brain are active under both circumstances.

But study or not, its common knowledge that its basic choice to engage in sexual activity. If not, then nobody could ever be convicted of rape.

Biologically, the body has no need of sex to function properly. It is a totally optional behavior. Granted, there are extremely powerful drives that affect us, especially during adolescence, but even that urge doesn't control us.

Additionally, the sex drive becomes more powerful AFTER the first orgasm. Its much easier to say no, when you've never experienced one.

It is scientifically proven that heroin affects your brain in much the same way as the chemicals produced during an orgasm. I suspect this is powerfully addictive. I believe that phenomenon was intentionally "installed" in us at creation, when God told us to "be fruitful and multiply."

So the answer is yes, but it requires discipline and self control.

Answer 4

I believe it is possible for any one to remain a virgin until married if they set their mind to it. Have you ever seen the movie 40 year old virgin, if not than maybe you should watch it.

Answer 5

No, i did not. i develop into 18 after I first had sex, i'm 21 now. i ought to represent making use of safe practices and such, yet get available and characteristic interesting. besides, do you've any concept how awkward that is for 2 virgins to attempt to characteristic sex? Neither knows what to do and it frequently leads to soreness for her and frustration for him. And yeah, you variety of include dropping the sturdy years... Having sex at the same time as your hip save popping out isn't virtually as a lot interesting as doing the completed Kama Sutra merely to verify in case you could.

Answer 6

Certainly possible, but you really have to ask why, and think about the consequences to be sure you consider it worth the wait.

Obviously, religious persuasion is the standard reason--which isn't much of a reason at all. It's an unjustified position that is just taken as "the rule" and not critically examined.

Often, though, people will attempt to rationalize the "no-sex-til-marriage" religious idea by citing things like:

"I want my first time to be special."

"I don't want to just have sex with anyone."

"Sex is an act of making love, and I want to be in love with my first sexual partner."

None of these questions justify waiting until marriage, of course. They all promote the idea of having sex with someone you really care about. People who have sex before marriage aren't generally just having sex with random people (though some definitely do).

Plus, your first time isn't going to be "good" by much of any measure of quality. Sure, it will feel awesome, but without experience you're going to fumble around like an idiot, the guy is going to go too soon, and the girl isn't going to orgasm at all.

Sex is "special," for sure...but too many people put it up on this ridiculous pedastal.

Answer 7

Yes, it's possible. Both my niece and my nephew were virgins before they married, and they are both attractive, well adjusted adults. The did it because they believed they could, and that it was the right thing to do. For those of you who are laughing and saying No, you must not respect yourself very much.

Answer 8

Practically, it is very difficult. God made man and woman to be fruitful, multiply and fill the earth. Some people however may opt to stay virgin because of personal conviction. However, staying so can be only possible with Gods help

Answer 9

Yes, it is very possible. It shows moral backbone. It can be rough of coarse, but it is well worth waiting for and for all the right reasons. Not just having sex for the sake of having sex. The pleasure is more satisfying, and very special. Thinking there is something wrong is a falsity. It is very gratifying and will always be remembered.

Answer 10

Of course. Does the person WANT to remain a virgin until marriage? I think that is the real question... and if they want to, then duh, of course they CAN. and if they never marry? well then they will be a virgin till they die. So what? If that's what they want and actually believe in it, then go for it.