2006-08-01 07:13:48 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
she needs to fess up and tell her parents or at least tell another adult that she trusts and she also needs to keep the baby and take full parental responiblity for that child....she made a grownup choice when she had sex and now she needs to pay the price....if she gives the baby up she will regret it in the future.......I got pregnant at 17 and i now have 2 kids and im 20......i wouldn't trade my babies for the world but i thought about adoption and my parents told me to piture my life 5 years from then and not being able to see my baby.....not ever getting to watch him grow-up...i thought about it and i kept him...i don't think i could live without either of my boys...they are my world.......and she can still go to school and stuff....the school will help with childcare she isn't the first 13 yro to have a baby and make something out of themselves.....not to mention that the baby and continuing school will help to teach her how to be a great and independent parent and how to be a strong women as she gets older.....i am also a single parent and i still go to school
2006-08-01 07:25:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, my god. I think the boyfriend should know first. Then even if the parents are gonna yell and stuff, she should face them and tell them. That's the best thing to do. I don't think she want to be 8 months pregnant and tell them. By the way, why did she have sex at 13, isn't she too young. And the sex was that good that make them didn't use protection.
2006-08-01 07:36:58 · answer #2 · answered by dasey012 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What she need to do is tell her boyfriend being that he is the baby daddy so they can sit down and talk about it and then tell both of there parents so they can figure out how they gonna take care of the baby.
2006-08-01 07:29:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry to hear that your friend is pregnant but I think that you should step up to the plate to be that encouraging friend to let her know that she should let her parents know it makes no sense in the telling her bf he will be just as scared as she is so you need to be that good voice in her ear to tell her although they are going to mad she should let them know otherwise she will wait until it is too late and she will be in labor! I will keep her and you in my prayers I wish her the best of luck!!!
P.S Be strong for her although she is wrong she needs a friend so please don't look down on her
2006-08-01 08:24:57 · answer #4 · answered by kharris6010 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would go to a christian pregnancy counseling center. They will help her tell her parents in a way that they may not get so angry at her. If the bf is 13 too, she should go to his parents bfore she goes to him. Adoption is up to her, as is abortion....god bless your friend, hope all is ok.
2006-08-01 07:59:48 · answer #5 · answered by bbgrl39 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they are gonna find out some time, why not now? tell her to tell her parents and boyfriend. she is too young to care for a child and doesn't have the money. she could have the baby and put it up for adoption or just let the parents take care of the baby when she is in need. PLEASE DON'T LET HER GET AN ABORTION. it's mean and what's the point? please don't.
2006-08-01 07:56:44 · answer #6 · answered by hmm.. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all tell her parents!! Then she should tell her boyfriend. 13 is too young to be having sex yet alone having a child.
2006-08-01 08:01:28 · answer #7 · answered by braceface105 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well what i think she should do is first tell her mom it is going to be alot of screaming and shouting but let her have her moment to do all of that. than she eventually tell you what to do listen to herr because a mother knows best she will know what to do she will lead you you be sure to follow than next she should tell her boyfriend he might not be the good type he might leave you. but f he leaves you than he was not going to be there in the first place he was totally not the man for you but if he stays he is a gooood man. if he leaves than put him on child suport make him pay for what he made.what i basically saying is tell her to tell her mother first than next her boy friend and do not i repeat do not have an abortion the baby do not have to pay because of your mistakes let it lived.
2006-08-01 07:52:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOOK PARENTS TEND TO SCARE KIDS WITH NASTY THING. BUT IN THE END. THEY ARE THE BEST PEOPLE YOU CAN EVER TRUST. LOOK THEY ARE PARENTS AS WELL. THEY WILL HELP, TRUST ME.
TRY THIS. TELL HER TO TAKE THEM OUT FOR DINNER AND TELL THEM THERE. THEY WILL BE IN PUBLIC AND NOT ABLE TO DO ANYTHING. IT MIGHT HELP. SO CONSIDER IT.
GOOD LUCK.
OH AND DONT EVER TELL HER TO ABORT. KIDS ARE THE BEST. TRUST ME. THEY ARE GORGEOUS.
OTHER WISE. IF SHE WOULD TO CONSIDER TO ADOPT. LET ME KNOW. IVE BEEN TRYING TO GET PREGNANT AGAIN. BUT NOT BEEN ABLE TO. SO THINK IT OVER WITH HER. LIFE IS NOT AS BAD AS IT SEEMS.
2006-08-01 07:29:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she needs to tell her mom today
and she needs to abort .. a 13 year old is not well enough developed to properly carry a baby, there is no logic or knowledge from religious idiots on this .. seek good medical advice, not religious stupidity.
2006-08-01 08:27:52 · answer #10 · answered by PlayTOE- 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋