My husband wants more oral. After 15 years of marriage he has only had it maybe 3 times. I do want to satify him, but my problem is I do not know how to do it well. I have tried to find websites but they all are crude. Can anyone recommend a website that discusses this without being crude or maybe a book? Any help is appreciated on this sensitive member.
2006-08-01 07:11:51 · 21 answers · asked by Tee 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I'm not trying to be crude, but buy one of those motorized suckers and practice on that in front of your husband!
Good luck!
2006-08-01 07:15:59 · answer #1 · answered by Angie P. 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Dear asker,
I have found the articles in Cosmopolitan magazine EXTREMELY helpful, well written and easy to understand.
You can go to their official website and link to Past Articles. I always take their advice on this matter even though I don't read that magazine. Their advice is from trained professionals and they use clean language.
Also, there is a video called "advance oral techniques" and it will actually show you how to do it. It's meant for couples wanting to learn things and is not porn. You can order this online or via mail discretly.
Try Halls menthol Liptus to enhance satisfaction and many other tricks that I cannot write here. Be gentle but firm. Don't bite. Use your hands and gently hold the jewels while performing. Practice with a banana or cucumber to get use to it and avoid gagging.
Good luck, I really commend you for trying to satisfy your man.
2006-08-01 07:24:54 · answer #2 · answered by Blunt 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
when you are alone take your middle finger and practice on it. Lick an suck in different ways and what ever you feel that is turning you on will pretty much turn your guy on. Give yourself time to adjust to the thought of it and get over the silliness/ disgust you feel about it. Between you and your husband it should be an fun adventure.
The books may be crude but they do offer some good advice that has been tried already. Good luck.
2006-08-01 07:18:39 · answer #3 · answered by bootsjeansnpearls 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wont recommend a website but I will recommend you get some girl friends together and just talk. An easy way to learn is to practice on a Popsicle in front of your husband. Last suggestion is to buy a video that can teach you how.
2006-08-01 07:17:54 · answer #4 · answered by Lov'n IT! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure what you mean by "crude", there aren't a lot of refined resources for such a topic. There are straight couples porn movies, and all things aside, they can teach you. I think if you really want to do this, and I applaud you for your efforts, you might have to lower your standard temporarily and take a walk on "the wild side" .
2006-08-01 07:31:08 · answer #5 · answered by Mike 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should talk to him about it, and maybe experiment. no website is going to be able to explain how "your" husband likes it. If you have only tried it 3 times, has he told you he doesn't enjoy it the way you do it? if so ask him to help you out, i'm sure he is willing to work with you. Perfection doesn't come out of thin air, maybe turn it into a game and i know this sounds weird but experiment with a veggie *carrot, cucumber ect* i hope this helps a little
2006-08-01 07:22:22 · answer #6 · answered by alleeshia 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-14 17:37:51 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A friend of mine told me to use a pealed banana. If teeth marks are left, you're doing it too hard, if you're not touching the banana, well that's a no brainer, and if you gently put the banana in your mouth and leave no teeth marks but gently taste the banana with your lips, you're doing it right. If you talk to your husband, he'll let you know what he wants. Good Luck.
2006-08-01 07:17:08 · answer #8 · answered by giwsd 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have cable TV, look at Real S__ on HBO channels, and they show couples how to do everything. There's an episode that teaches females how to do just that with demonstrations on real like pe_____. If not, just ask him what he want from you & let him explain his needs, before he goes outside to get what he's lacking. Wish you luck!
2006-08-01 07:51:06 · answer #9 · answered by msthinkpositive 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOOK!! there is no technique here! He will be happy if you just DO IT! Ask him for what he likes and what he doesn't like, but in 15 uyears, if he has only had 3 BJs, the man doens't KNOW what he likes. Just experiment, use your hands and your mouth, listen to how he reacts. this is NOT rocket science and it is not vulgar... just try SOMETHING, he will NOT be disappointed!
2006-08-01 07:19:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋