am i the only one who hate my parents ??

Question

just want to know whether u ppl. hate ur parents or not.....

Answer 1

yes..i do hate them..i used to luv them a lot ( a lot cant even measure it) but once they start behaving very rude with me i changed my mind of view on them..n even they said they hate me they dont like me anymore..mom she slaps me, kicks me...my dad he doesnt even like talkin to me...they just act like i'm not their child..they just take care of me just for the sake i was born to them..idont like to stay with them...i just hate them like HELL!!

Answer 2

I am so shocked and apalled at the insensitive replies you have had.

It is quite normal to go through a stage in your development hating those you once love without and specific reason. Just as its possiblr to fall back in line of loving them again. As teenagers we respond very differently to stimuli that would not affect others.

Being a teenager and the feeling of 'hate' isnt often the same as we mature emotionally either. As we begin to identify our emotions and expand our self awareness we also learn that there are many definitions of what you are feeling to your parents, the emotion you once described as 'hate' may be identified by you later as 'intense dislike' and thus you will realise that you are maturing.

Don't worry bout this right now, youre young and learning so much. There is always the possibility that for some reason the word 'hate' fits your feelings, and something bad is happening to you. Remember there is always organisations and people who can advise/support you through you development and experiences in adolescent years.

Answer 3

Look there is no such thing in hatting your parents. You care for them regardles. Otherwise you woulndt be asking this question. Because you sure do care for them, all the time. Its just your anger talking.
Parents are supposed to be parents. And kids just kids.
Whatever the case might be here. But soon enouph you will end up hatting youself for even thinking you hate them.
But dont worry you are not the only one who does.
At some point in life you feel that way even for them.

Answer 4

when i was young and i couldnt get my own way I used to think I hated them, especially when they wouldnt let me out clubbing. But then my mum died from cancer on my 16th birthday and I realised that everything she did was out of love and that I had made her last few years very difficult when I should have been appreciating every second.
So my life continued and having lost my mum I kinda assumed that my dad would always be there, so sometimes I got too mad at him too, especially when he met someone else and had a child with her(i see now he missed my mum and was just trying to get that happiness back).
Then when I was 5 months pregnant at the age of 21 I found out he had cancer too-so the next year I spent with him was the happiest and saddest of my life-I found out what a wonderful, kind, intelligent person he was and we had so many wonderful times together-he truely bacame my best friend.But every day he got weaker and he died two days before christmas.Both parents gone, from the same thing, before I was 22.
So what Im trying to say is, yeah they will make you mad sometimes, and you will wish they just dissapear every now and then.But they love you more than you can begin to imagine and life would never be the same without them.So try and see things from their point of view-its hard sometimes, but when I look at my son and feel overwhelming love for him, i realise thats how my parents felt for me, even when they were telling me off.
You only get one set of parents, and they can go so quickly, so treasure every second.

Answer 5

My father was a bad tempered, womanising drunk who bitterly resented us and called us parasites. He refused to speak to me before he died of cancer because I had told him that my brother had overheard a conversation between him and his new wife. My mother was a bad tempered religious fanatic who was brought up in an orphanage, so had no parenting skills. She used to tell me I was demon possessed amongst many other thngs.
I don't hate my parents, but I don't love them the way I should. Why should I? When my father died, I felt a pang but more of "that's not the way it should be" rather than sorrow.
And by the way, I'm not a kid. I'm in my 40's. Parents scar kids.

Answer 6

I hate my parents some times..... like when they wont listen to me.... they're always going out and with friends and all I get to do is sit and do nothing...... but then I'm also greatful for them b/c we have quite a bit of money and a nice house so if it wasn't for them I wouldn't have half my stuff..... so it's 50/50.

Answer 7

I love my parents. My mother has done some things in her life that has made me really mad at her but because she is my mother I could never hate her. My dad has always been there for me when no one else was so I love him too. There have been some moments when I have been really mad at them and I thought I hated them but I don't. I never could.

Answer 8

you didn't mention why you hate your parents any how parents do every thing for there child's in this world no parents will hurt there own child's hey will do every thing for own good for there child's.if any body hate there parents mean some reasonable point need.i thing more then 90%children love there parents with out particular reason no body hates there parents.

Answer 9

well I'm all grown up now and I don't hate my parents, my mum died 6 years ago and I'm getting on well with my dad. you sound so sad from your questions on your profile. i don't know where you live or how you feel about this, but have you considered praying? I've never been let down by god.

Answer 10

Yeah, everybody goes through that stage. Goes away as you get older. Just don't do anything stupid what would compromise your relationship in a longrun or affect your life forever ( like just to show them you'll get pregnat or move out or drop out of school... all stupid decisions you would regret couple years from now).

Answer 11

I used to hate my parents, but hen I grew up and realized what they were doing was for my own good.