I knew her before they started going out, but I can't get her off my mind. They have been going out for almost 2 months. Can you help me? I love her but don't know what to do?
2006-08-01 06:38:05 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I'm the yonger one.
2006-08-01 06:45:47 · update #1
You have to decide what's more important. Girlfriends come and go, but brothers are brothers for life.
2006-08-01 06:41:44 · answer #1 · answered by anthonydavidpirtle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to get over here. I know that is hard to hear, but do you have any idea how many relationships between brothers that have been ruined for life by this stuff? I had a similar issue with a very close friend, and it pretty much ruined our friendship, and I'm still mad at myself for doing something about it. Just back away, do the right thing. Girlfriends only last for months, family is forever.
Good luck.
2006-08-01 06:44:03 · answer #2 · answered by natex14 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Things like this happen. You are brothers and are likely to be attracted to the same type of women. Feeling this way is OK. Doing something about it is not. Let it go. If you have to, talk to you brother. Let him know that you think his girlfriend is really nice. But limit it to that. It may help you diffuse your feelings a bit.
2006-08-01 06:45:02 · answer #3 · answered by Otis F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I see a Springer episode in your future. Seriously, you can't really act on it right now. Just continue being nice to her and if they break up then maybe think about declaring your feelings for her. In the meantime, try to find someone else to date that isn't looking for anything serious. Good luck!
2006-08-01 06:42:46 · answer #4 · answered by Wannabeadoc06 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont try 2 break them up just wait til they dump each other and then try 2 go out with her. let ur brother have a life
plz put me as best answer so i get 10 points
2006-08-01 06:43:02 · answer #5 · answered by urlover5676 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NEVER, EVER go where your brother has been. It's an unwritten rule to never date someone who has dated your brother. She's ust a girl. There's tons more. Go find one. Good luck!
2006-08-01 06:43:41 · answer #6 · answered by michaelyoung_airforce 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her how u feel and tell your brother if that dont work then find some way to break them out or get a hotter girl to hand out around your brother and see what happens
2006-08-01 06:41:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go directly after her... if you want to start world war 3 with your brother, that is.
2006-08-01 06:42:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you already knew her, why didn't you ask her out first? We always want what we can't have, so accept that your brother got there first.
2006-08-01 06:50:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you love her then tell her but if you love your broter more then you will let them be. you have to decide whta to do your hearthas the right ansewr that a couple of strangers. just think about it go against your brother or win the girl you love.
just think about it
i wish you luck
think and really think about it
2006-08-01 06:44:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋