lets say if i was in my new schoolthat i just moved from then moved back to if someone was talking about me and it was all done with but the person still didn;t like you what do you do if you really want to become friends.
2006-08-01 06:11:07 · 11 answers · asked by beach_bum06 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
All my life I have lived in this dilemna that how can I win people. But of late I have realised that while trying to win people I lost myself, my identity, my self esteem. Believe me dear friend that these three are our best friends and shud never be left for any other thing on this earth. I don't want you to undergo the same trauma that I did. So wait for the right people to come don't degrade yourself in your own eyes to impress others.
Yours sincerely
Vanchit
2006-08-01 06:16:59 · answer #1 · answered by Vanchit S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a girl once that hated my guts... so she told everyone.. I supposively did something, yet I don't remember doing, Anyway, I started dressing the way she did, and fixing my hair simular to hers, and I talked about things around her that I found out she was interestered in, in about a month, she became my best freind and we still are to this day! Good luck!
2006-08-01 13:24:21 · answer #2 · answered by shy&gental 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would you want to be friends with someone that you know doesn't like you? it seems that the friendship wouldnt last long anyway and if it does it will probly be because that person keeps you around to belittle you...i dont really care what people say about me though and if that person wants to be your friend they will make the effort....
2006-08-01 13:14:51 · answer #3 · answered by susuze2000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first i would go up to them and try to start a conversation if that person ignores u then u got one thing u can do is tell them that u really would like to become there friend and then if that don't work i say ***** em u don't need em.
2006-08-01 13:19:31 · answer #4 · answered by big mike 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to them. ask them why they insist on being mean to you. if nothing works, you might just have to deal with the fact that everyone has enemies. you can't have everyone like you. and it becomes quite irritating when people try too hard to get others to like them. try and fix the situation, but if that doesn't work: just be yourself and those who like you will find you.
2006-08-01 13:14:15 · answer #5 · answered by sweeternity2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just have to get some curraage and talk to the person straight up and tell them how you feel, thats what us girls can do, take advantage of it.
2006-08-01 13:13:57 · answer #6 · answered by laurennn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't say that I've been there. I don't know try to be nice to the person if it doesn't work you just hve to find someone else.Can't do it by force.
good luck!!!
2006-08-01 13:18:09 · answer #7 · answered by Jane*One look is all it takes... 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask them y or at least find out y they don't like u and try to smooth things over, but don't beg for their friendship or anything- if they don't like u n still don't want to hang out wiff u after then screw em, get new friends
2006-08-01 13:17:12 · answer #8 · answered by vanessara85 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think that you should ask them and go from there ok
2006-08-01 13:15:59 · answer #9 · answered by annabello726652003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that didn't make much sense
do you speak english?
2006-08-01 13:15:03 · answer #10 · answered by okiedokey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋