Their physical appearance (looks & body), their character & morals, the way they dress, sense of humor, intelligence? Rank order of importanace with 5 being most important.
2006-08-01 05:46:58 · 32 answers · asked by DesignR 5 in Social Science ➔ Sociology
I like how men answer this like they actually know... Unless you're planning on moonlighting in transgenderland or you're a hermaphrodite, I don't really see how you can answer for a woman, unless you attract only the kind of woman who loves men for their, as you put it, "$".
1. Sense of humor - This is the kicker for me. A guy with a good sense of humor and a wit to go with it will get me hooked.
2. Intelligence - This is a huge disqualifier. I don't like to talk to any guy I would see as brainless or vapid. This is actually one of my highest prejudices, as I don't tend to like people I find to be stupid.
3. Character/Morals - At this point I can explore if he has any of either... I'm not talking here about what jokes he might make (as I have a pretty dark sense of humor), but really I tend to like someone who won't sell themselves out and actually gives a damn about something other than himself.
4. (Bonus Round) Appearance/Dress - Honestly, COMPLETELY HONESTLY, I for the most part do not put much value into a man's appearance. I'll sure as hell notice if he's cute, but beyond looking, that will never be what draws me to a man. I'm FAR more liable to approach a fat man with a Popular Mechanics or gaming magazine than I am a cute guy looking at himself in the mirror.
5. Money - I don't give a damn about money beyond, at best, a pleasing bonus. I can take care of myself. I've been poor all my life, and I'm paying my own way through school. If some guy I already liked happens to be loaded, well that'd be okay. If he doesn't meet the first three criteria, I'm not going to waste my time.
2006-08-01 06:00:39 · answer #1 · answered by Meredia 4 · 4⤊ 1⤋
5. Character and Morals
4. Sense of Humor
3. Intelligence
2. Physical Appearance
1. Dress
2006-08-01 05:52:17 · answer #2 · answered by Annette G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm mostly attracted to guys by looks at first, but if they have poor morals or a bad character it can ruin it all. On the flip side once I have gotten to know a guy they can become much more attractive. Sense of humor and intelligence is a must. For long term, serious relationships
I would rate:
character and morals-5
intelligence-4
humor-3
physical appearance-2
dress-1 (cause its the easiest one to change)
Be yourself and you'll find the right girl-don't change unless you really love her
2006-08-01 06:01:07 · answer #3 · answered by Jme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's true that a man's outer appearance: good looks, nice smile, the way he dresses etc. is what attracts me to him initially. If he's intelligent, I'm more drawn than if he's not. But that's all it is; just the attraction. For a man to win me over though, he has to treat me with respect, have a wonderful sense of humor, good morals,and accept everything about me without wanting to change me. He doesn't have to be "pretty" to do that. In fact, if I wasn't attracted to his outward appearance, he may have to work harder at getting my attention, (that shows his character), but may win my heart in the long run. Isn't that what it's all about anyway?
2006-08-01 06:25:20 · answer #4 · answered by smommeee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
5 - Character & Morals
4 - Physical Appearance
3 - Sense of Humor
2 - Intelligence
1 - Way They Dress
2006-08-01 05:52:32 · answer #5 · answered by Sylvie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
5. character & morals
When you have good morals and excellent character, your one of the most attractive men on the planet.
4.intelligence
I like guys who can think, If theres a problem you have a hard time with,you can depend on him to help you figure it out.
3.sense of humor
Not to be mean, but I always feel weird around guys who think they are funny, but they aren't.
2.physical appearance
Its important, but is not everything,sometmes the most attractive men are jerks.Eye candy is nice though.
1.the way they dress
Most guys dress well I think, as long as he dose not dress like a hobo,I'm fine.
2006-08-01 06:04:10 · answer #6 · answered by Tokyo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sense of humor(got to have that to get through life)
intelligence(when I'm in my rocking chair i want my Best friend and to be able to old an intelligent conversation)
morals(I you have all the above you usually have moral, but to do others right is important to me and to help those truly in need)
character (Goes hand in hand with all the above he would probably be a REAL CHARACTER my kind of people
dress Clean and neat but dress to suit his personality least of importance.
appearance
2006-08-01 05:59:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
5 - Physical Appearance (can't get to the other qualities unless he makes it past this, sad but true)
4 - Their Character & Morals
3 - Sense of Humor
2 - Intelligence
1 - The Way They Dress (this is something that we women can change if he makes it past the other things)
2006-08-01 05:53:28 · answer #8 · answered by Minina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Intelligence (number 1 is most important, because it's first.)
2. Character
3. Love making ability
4. Looks
If a man is intelligent he will have a good financial status. If a man has a good character, he will have a great sence of humor. If a man can make me squeal with delight...who cares how he looks?
2006-08-01 05:55:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. The way they dress
2. Character and Morals
3. Physical appearance
4. Intelligence
5. Sense of humor
2006-08-01 05:52:13 · answer #10 · answered by Amanda 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋