Me and a good friend of my became lovers, and it destroyed our friendship when we realized that we couldn't be in a relaionship. We have finally began speaking after a while of no conversating. What is a good way to start our friendship over in a new direction, even though I still have some feelings for him?
2006-08-01 05:42:47 · 2 answers · asked by Charlies_Angel 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Slowly. Go slow and have no expectations except that you care about him as a person and want him in your life. I imagine it's going to feel like you're starting over from the very beginning, like you're just getting to know him for the first time. Treat him exactly that way--with kindness and respect but repsect the emotional distance betelling of a friendship, you know? Be mindful of the boundaries, IOW.
Good luck.
2006-08-01 05:50:37 · answer #1 · answered by I'm just me 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just keep it all physical no touching though hands to self make it funnier an hotter
2006-08-01 12:47:44 · answer #2 · answered by j_us_t_littlebit 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋