What should i do?????
2006-08-01 05:39:50 · 17 answers · asked by Little Mona Lisa 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
talk to her and ask her what is up. she may think the same thing about u. she may think u don't care or something. i dunno, just talk to her about it. if u guys r best friends, then she should tell u what is up. good luck! :)
2006-08-01 05:47:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her about how you feel. I made the mistake many years ago of not saying anything to my best friend about how I was feeling and we just ended up drifting apart without really communicating with one another. Now I miss her.
All you can do is be honest and tell her that you miss her and she feels distant lately. Tell her that you love spending time with her on occasion and that you'd like to get together or spend more time together when she's free. Don't make her feel bad... maybe she's busy or momentarily distracted by a new love interest or something. She probably isn't intentionally trying to hurt your feelings.
Just be honest and tell her that you miss her and would like to get together soon to hang out. See how it goes. You can also write her a nice note expressing your feelings. Communication is important in ANY relationship.
2006-08-01 12:45:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's probably to soaked in her own life, she might have a lot on her mind and can't deal with your problems on top of hers. Listen to her more, body language as well as verbal. Stop paying as much attention to her, if shes a good friend she will realize it and come to you.. She will start paying attention when she sees your not 'caring'
2006-08-01 12:44:58 · answer #3 · answered by pretty_lesbiian 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe your giving her more attention than she needs, she may be just sick of all this attention you're giving her!!! I'm not saying stop talking to her or stop being nice just don't call as often or don't ask so many questions or just tone the attention down and when you do give her attention she'll be even happier to get it from you !!!!!
2006-08-01 12:48:06 · answer #4 · answered by cutie pie!!! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she isnt your best friend; being best friends means that you both get along so well and are there for eachother. i think if you feel this way i'd try to make better friends with others
2006-08-01 12:45:08 · answer #5 · answered by clueless_idiot 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your best friends surely has her OWN PROBLEMS!, and she needs her space to resolve them.
Surely she cares about you, but not all her time is YOURS!
Be patient, soon she´ll come to you.
2006-08-01 12:44:36 · answer #6 · answered by Isadora 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, i think you should talk to her and tell her how you feel and tell her its busy affecting your friendship and if she doesnt do something about it then she might lose you as a friend
2006-08-01 12:43:43 · answer #7 · answered by theguru_10 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not take it personally. Maybe she is just busy. Get busy yourself and things will work out fine.
2006-08-01 12:44:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell and then ask why . Then cry a little bring a gift...
2006-08-01 12:44:17 · answer #9 · answered by lambgroni 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your best friend, what you just told us.
2006-08-01 12:42:19 · answer #10 · answered by Aunt Mair á?¦ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋