ok theres this guy i like a lot hes in a grade higher than me and he has a girlfriend who hes completely in love with. theyve been going out for almost 7 months but i realllllly love this guy and im not sure how he feels about me....i know he knows i like him though. ive known him for a while but we dont talk much hes my friend and evrything and we know each other kinda well but what should i do??? hes not the guy who would ask me out (i dont think) so id have to ask him out. i realllllllllllllllly reallllllllllllllly like him though.... evry1s saying move on and wait ur turn but im soo impatient they rnt gonna break up anytime soon i dont think! HELP!
2006-08-01 05:38:03 · 19 answers · asked by xox iRiS GiRL xox 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
i dont think that the guy i like likes me back and i think he definetely like his gf more. and im pretty sure his gf likes him a lot because theyve been going out for almost 6 months
2006-08-01 07:23:58 · update #1
*mumbles* I really hate the "I like him what do I do questions" You know if you do a search on the question you just asked I'll bet there are at least 100 just like it! Go see what everyone said about those!
2006-08-01 05:42:52 · answer #1 · answered by flyingbumblebee 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you're really in love with him then. A big part of being in love is caring about the other person's happiness more than your own. If he is happily in a relationship, why would you want to break that up? So can have him? If they're both happy, isn't that a bit selfish? If it's meant to be, it will happen. If he decides he likes you more than he likes her he will break up with her, and then you can make your move. Since you say he already knows you like him, and he's still going out with her, move on and find someone else to love. I promise you that you'll get over him.
2006-08-01 12:43:07 · answer #2 · answered by They call me ... Trixie. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think about this. If you were with a guy who you loved would you want some other girl being all crazy over him and trying to think of ways to get with him or sabatoge your relationship? Probably not huh? If this guy is with a girl and they are happy then LEAVE HIM ALONE. You wouldnt want someone to mess with your relationship so why would you do it to someone else? I am married and have been with my husband for 5 years, and if some girl came around him trying to be with him because she thought she was in love with him, I would beat the life right out of her. I love my husband very much and would fight to the death to keep him. Luckily for me if something like that did happen I wouldnt have to worry because my husband loves me too and wouldnt leave me for any girl. no matter how much she claimed to love him. By the way you are using the term love a little loosely, your young and still in school so I doubt you even know what love really is. If you did love this guy, you would see that he was happy with his girlfriend and you would want what was best for him and wouldnt be trying to think of a way to take whats making him happy away from him so you could have him. Your not in love you are being selfish. You have a big crush and thats all. I have to say I think what you are doing is really messed up and if I was this guys girlfriend I would kick your @$$!
2006-08-01 12:49:32 · answer #3 · answered by ♥♫♥ Crystal ♥♫♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is wrong with waiting? You can be friends and what if they never break up then what? Find another man to love soooo he is relllly cute and you want him. If it is ment to be he will come even if it is after school is over I mean what if he goes to college in another state then what? I know why don't you just tell him how you feel and say when u r ready to move on come to me. Leave the door open for him what do yuo have to lose exept time.
2006-08-01 12:47:36 · answer #4 · answered by unsure 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would have to say move on. If he is not gong to break up soon then obviously he likes what he has with this other girl. That doesn't mean your not a great girl, but he probably isn't the one for you. If he is a friend talk to him. Tell him, Joe* i know you are with Sarah* but i really like you and i think we could work out, if not i still would like to be good friends. See what he says. If you really like him, then you would want to be happy right? Trust me, you don't want to be in a relationship that doesn't reciprocate the feelings. GOOD LUCK!!!!
2006-08-01 12:46:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on,,,,, infactuations will come and go like the wind. Date, have fun, The only thing you will get out of relationships now are lessons about what you will look for in a guy in the future anyways. Leave him be, you would not want another woman pining after your guy would you. Then don't do it to someone else.
2006-08-01 12:44:26 · answer #6 · answered by Joseph L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U know I've been in ur situation b4. In my case, i approached the guy and told him how i felt and it turns out he felt the same way so, i think it's worth a try. Just be careful how u approach the guy, u know. Dont just say "i like u". Find a more suttle approach. I really hope i was able to help!
2006-08-01 12:46:02 · answer #7 · answered by tml 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him u like him but dont start hanging all around him cause his gf might get mad and dump him and if finds out that u caused her 2 break up wit him there will b no future 4 u 2 hope this turns out good 4 u
2006-08-01 12:51:50 · answer #8 · answered by sweettart1325 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes when you feel such a connection to someone it's hard not to be selfish. But the question you need to ask yourself is what if you were her? How would you feel? I know that you have a major crush, but someday someone will be dying to be with you. This guy is with the girl he wants to be with. Let it go and be a hottie on your own.
2006-08-01 13:17:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You remind me of my friend Emily. She will never go out with someone our age. She is always looking for someone who is older. And she likes guys older that ALWAYS have girlfriends. She just tells the guy she likes him and more times than not they end up dating. I say risk it and tell him. There's nothing he can do if he doesnt know.
2006-08-01 12:43:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋