ok im 15 i aint a ho os $lut or anything but last week i found out that im pregnant what do i do?? i mean what do i tell my boyfriend?? so what do i do?? and yeha if i tell my parents for sure i'll be dead.. so what do i do??
2006-08-01 05:19:05 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
im not going to get an abortion im against that but then thats sad also if i put the baby up for adoption because yeah i was adopted and the parents i have now well yeah they kind dont like me but they will kill me if i was
2006-08-02 12:44:55 · update #1
i meant they would kill me since i am
2006-08-02 12:45:34 · update #2
umm you shouldn't be having sex at 15 (I'm 15 too) Tell your boyfriend you're carrying his child and you HAVE to tell your parents because they can help- even though they may be mad it's better than them finding out 6 months from now when they can see your stomach hanging out.
Please don't get an abortion! It's murder.
If your boyfriend doesn't give you child support or help you then you can report him.
You can also think about giving your baby to a family that wants one if you don't think you can support it.
Don't drop out of school either.
My friend who is 16 is pregnant and she was going through the same thing and asking the same questions.
Please take my advice. God bless you and your baby!
Jesus is my homie.
2006-08-01 05:25:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Better to be dead temporarily than to make such a huge mistake/decision on your own. Yes your parents will be upset but once the shock wears off then you can sit down and discuss options. I personally would recommend adoption, there are so many childless couples out there that long for a baby, and they could provide it with a loving two parent home. God bless.
2006-08-01 05:25:38 · answer #2 · answered by southforty1961 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well u better tell your boyfriend right away. He knew that if u guys had sex that this might happen. Its his responsibility just as much as its yours. then decide together what u want to do. Your parents will be upset at first but they love you and you can all deal with the situation together. my niece was 13 when she got pregnant and her mom freaked at first but then they dealt with the situation. And she wasn't even sure who the dad was. Now it's 4 years later and my niece just graduated high school and is raising her son all by herself. It was very hard for her,she didn't get to go and do things, like the rest of her friends. its alot of responsibilty. So good luck.
2006-08-01 05:33:53 · answer #3 · answered by lori 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you are too young to be having sex in the first place! If you didnt want to be pregnant you should have at least used birth control! Since its too late for that though I wont lecture you anymore. Your parents will probably be pretty upset esp considering your age but you need to tell them, they can help to put things into perspective for you, they may be mad, but they are your parents, they love you, and they will help you in any way that they can. It is also important to tell your boyfriend, that child growing in your tummy is half his too and he deserves to know whats going on and to be involved. I suggest you take responsibility for your actions, you decided you were grown up enough to have sex now you need to be grown up enough to be pregnant, even if you don't keep the baby please please PLEASE dont have an abortion, adoption is a great alternative, and your child doesnt deserve to die because you are young and made a mistake, you could be carrying the person who will someday cure aids or cancer, dont deprive the world of that because you are selfish. You made you bed now lie in it.
2006-08-01 05:32:12 · answer #4 · answered by ♥♫♥ Crystal ♥♫♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell someone... you are eventually going to have to tell your parents. They will probably react a lot better than you think. I was scared telling my parents. But, it went better than I expected. I don't think you are a $lut at all. I had sex too when I was your age, he was my first. We ended up together for two years. I had many pregnancy scares at your age because I thought he was "the one" and I was just niave. You must tell your parents and your boyfriend. They will find out eventually anyways. Good luck.
2006-08-01 05:42:46 · answer #5 · answered by Ashley P 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look, my mother had ma her first child when she was 15. Yes, the first thing to do is tell you parents. Even if you know they'll kill you your gonna need some help gettin through the next 9 months. Secondly TELL THE MAN WHO GOT YOU PREGNANT!!! And honey, you may not be a ho, BUT WHAT IN THE HELL WERE YOU THINKING HAVING UNPROTECTIVE SEX AT 15?!!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!??!
2006-08-01 05:29:01 · answer #6 · answered by lost&confuzed 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your going to have to tell someone, you have a lot of decisions to consider and they affect both you and your boyfriend so he has a right to know. You may be suprised at your parents response but most importantly you need to see a doctor if you haven't already (possibly a counselor), this is not going to go away the longer you wait the more complicated and stressfull you life is going to be.
2006-08-01 05:24:55 · answer #7 · answered by PediRN 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to tell your parents. You are a minor and you need help making a decision about what to do and help getting medical care for yourself and your unborn child. You need to sit down with them and talk to them. You made a grown up decision to have sex and now you need to face the results of that decision like a grown up. You also need to tell your boyfriend as he has some responsibility as the father of this baby.
2006-08-01 05:23:28 · answer #8 · answered by momma2mingbu 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you tell your parents you wont be dead....they prolly wont be happy when you tell them but get that day out of the way and everything will be fine...your mom will prolly enjoy going to your doctors appointments...especially the one where you find out what it is! and she'll prolly throw you a baby shower....so dont worry it will not be as bad as you think....my best friend got pregnant when she was 15 and her first thought was "what am i gonna do, my mom is gonna kill me so i cant tell her" she didnt tell her mom until she started showing at 5 months and she said her and her mom had a really nice talk about her pregnancy....her mom wasnt happy but her son is 4 now and her mom could not live without her grandson...shes got that boy spoiled! so dont worry....tell your boyfriend and tell your mom
2006-08-01 05:36:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to a crisis pregnancy center or Pregnancy Resource Center and talk with a counselor. They can help you with your decisions, and you need to tell your parents, as well. They might not react as poorly as you think. They are your parents!
2006-08-01 05:26:32 · answer #10 · answered by Strange question... 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋