2006-08-01 05:00:19 · 11 answers · asked by Tell Tell Tell 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
You should have thought of that before you got her pregnant.
2006-08-01 05:04:49 · answer #1 · answered by goodbye 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I had a baby when I was 15. Stick with her no matter what. Besides her needing you, your baby needs a father in the picture... And remember, you don't have to be with her to have your baby if you guys are having problems. I know a lot of people that got married just because of a baby, and then ended up divorced... Just don't leave, that's most important. My babystill cries over daddy not being there even after 8 years!
2006-08-01 15:37:06 · answer #2 · answered by sara 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have to make sure that she is getting adequate nutrients, including at LEAST 2,000 mg of calcium a day. If you don't already have a job, get one, because if she plans on keeping the baby diapers, formula (If she doesn't breastfeed), clothes, medical care, etc, are very expensive. Encourage her to stay in school because she needs to have a decent education because it takes 2 incomes most of the time to take care of a child. Be there for her and just listen, because going through pregnancy is extremely hard on a girl/woman's hormones. You may think that she is being a total Bit*h, but remember that you are partially responsible for that.
2006-08-01 12:07:32 · answer #3 · answered by Ryan's mom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now it's time to step up and take responsibility! Try to get a part-time job somewhere either at McDonald's or bussing tables at a sit down restaurant as you're going to need money to feed and clothe that child.
As for your girlfriend, be there for her in EVERY way. Let her talk about what she's going through physically and emotionally. Go to her doctor appointments with her, tell her she's beautiful (even if she doesn't feel that way due to her growing belly) and when she can't see her feet anymore tie her shoes for her!
I hope that it all works out. God Bless!
2006-08-01 12:05:23 · answer #4 · answered by Mom of One in Wisconsin 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
IT's not just her that's having a baby, you are too!! You have to deal with the whole situation and that includes Y O U !!!! Get an education, make sure you support the child no matter what, be there for the mother, consider counciling. Whatever you do...don't suggest aborption. that is murder and it is wrong. it is a guilt that you will have to live with the rest of your life. you can do it, just stick with her and be strong. good luck to you!
2006-08-01 12:15:50 · answer #5 · answered by AMY P 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
3 things
1) keep the baby and support it
2)have an abortion
3)give the baby up for adoption.
i wouldnt envy any of those decsions considering ur ages but this is something u need to think wisely about. and it will stay with u forever no matter which route u take
2006-08-01 12:06:36 · answer #6 · answered by lovelygeorgeoussexy1986 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the 15 year old's daddy or the daddy of the baby??
if you're the baby's daddy, then you don't "deal" with your partner you work with them and comfort her and try to be there when she needs you to go to a dr visit or hold her hand or even listen to her as her body goes through a HUGE change!
if you're the 15 year old's dad, then you just try to be understanding, and calm.
take care.
2006-08-01 12:05:45 · answer #7 · answered by joey322 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? You should get her to a doctor and make sure she is healthy. You two and your parents will have to decide what is right for her and the baby! PRAY! and good luck!
2006-08-01 12:04:58 · answer #8 · answered by Cheri E 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
are u the girls dad or the baby's dad? either way support her, this is what she needs now, and if you are the baby's dad, you have no idea how your life is gonna change, continue your education and get a job, because that kid isn't gonna live on only love.
2006-08-01 12:47:04 · answer #9 · answered by Baby Ruth habla español 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should have thought of that before you had sex. You should convence her to give this baby up for adoption! That way both of them can have a life!
2006-08-01 12:06:31 · answer #10 · answered by LITTLE 1 :o) 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋