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I wish I had a bf. Does anyone want to IM me. I'm a young teen! In my 11-12

2006-08-01 04:22:18 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting Adolescent

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Okay, I have a several things to say:

1. You're way too young for a boyfriend. Sorry, but when I was your age I was EXTREMELY crazy about having a boyfriend just like you, never had one and still don't and glad it's that way. You're not physically or mentally ready at all. "But I am, I AM!" you say? NO, you're NOT. Not to sound like a mother or big sister, but it's true. Trust me. You may get into situations you may not know how to act in. Whether it's good or bad.

2. Depend if you have a tall height and large frame, 105 lbs is fine. I'm 82 lbs, but I'm very short and have a very small frame, so it's fine.

3. Why did you say you have no boyfriend and then said that you think you don't have one? Please learn to be more logical...

4. Are you asking for a boyfriend ONLINE?! Girl, that's crazy. First, there probably aren't any boys your age here. Next, how can you even trust everyone to be all nice and cute? You expect everyone to be like in your mind! Geez, that's not how it is at all. Don't your parents take their responsibility of parenting right? Don't they care about you? They do? Oh yeah, then that's why they didn't tell you Internet is even more sick than in the street! People can cheat and lie a whole lot more here than anywhere else because they're hidden. Can't be seen. That way, they can do what they want. Heck, a middle-aged bald guy could say, "Hi, I'm a thirteen year old girl with blond hair and blue eyes! Want to be friends?" Just to tell you... I'd be just a bit more careful if I were you!

Sorry to be so harsh and honest, but it's for your own good. I've lived in America and they're way too friendly and keeping you naive. You kids need some toughness instead of the usual "honey" and "sweetie" crap you get. Anyway, hope this helped, you'll learn, grow and everything will truly turn out the best. Good luck! Take care. :)

2006-08-01 04:57:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

I know it may seem bad, but think about it for a minute. It's probably because a boy is shy that he wont talk to you.
I am 12 and weigh 176 pounds. I also have a very large bone structure. But Ive had tons of boyfriends.
May the goddess bring you peace of mind

2006-08-01 17:57:59 · answer #2 · answered by LuLu 1 · 0 0

Your weight shouldn't have any affect on the way people should treat you. Trust me having a boyfriend isn't always everything. You still have plenty of time to get a boyfriend. Take insperation from Natasha Bedingfeilds song " Single"

2006-08-02 18:30:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

being honest here okay! Are you fat? Do people stare at you?are you active at all? Do you exercise?? These are the questions you are suppoesed to ask youself! Whatever you do DO NOT starve yourself or else no one will like for sure!! ANyway-you 11-12!! You have plenty of time! At your age, just have fun and relax!! Talk to boys!!

2006-08-01 11:44:21 · answer #4 · answered by 12 yr old boi crazzi gurl 2 · 0 0

you dont need a boyfriend there nothing but troble and heart breake and dont worry when i was 11 or 12 i was like 91 pounds lol... but im 16 now and im 115 and i have a boyfriend so dont worry about it lol it will all come in time

2006-08-01 11:39:02 · answer #5 · answered by ashleybaby147 2 · 0 0

you 11 and 12 year old girls need to stop worring about dating its not big deal all it causes is heart ache
im 16 and im already sick of it too many gfs in a short mont of time
dont waste time trying to attract a guy because youll find an asshole have the guy come to you for who you are

2006-08-02 15:08:19 · answer #6 · answered by sexyplya_69 1 · 0 0

i am 11 and wheigh 115. who cares if u dont have a bf. i have had 1 and i like it better just having friends not bfs. w/ friends if u get in a fight u usually make up, but with a bf if u get in a fite u 2 r done.

2006-08-01 12:32:02 · answer #7 · answered by Jillian 2 · 0 0

I didn't weigh that much until I was 15. But, you are too young to even need a boyfriend. Chill out! Enjoy being a child.

2006-08-01 11:56:40 · answer #8 · answered by LITTLE 1 :o) 6 · 0 0

im 12 and 105 and im not fat at all well i knda short consdiering im 5'1 but u dont need to be doing this over the internet your going to get RAPED U FOOL!!!

2006-08-01 12:16:15 · answer #9 · answered by Lana M 3 · 0 0

that's ok.i'm about ur age 2,but i'm not allowed 2 have a boyfriend yet.i'll IM u.my s/n on yahoo is musicgirl_555

2006-08-01 11:54:04 · answer #10 · answered by melissa 5 · 0 0

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