She is trying to ruin my life! We were living together for awhile and she told my parents all kinds of lies about me so they would kick me out. And it worked. Now I am forced into a whole new lifestlye. She is still continuing to tell my parents things about me that aren't true. I don't understand....Any advice?
2006-08-01 04:21:26 · 10 answers · asked by TariJean 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
fling poop at her
2006-08-01 04:28:16 · answer #1 · answered by u12fme 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
At 23 you are old enough to be responsible for your own life and your lifestyle. You say she has forced you into a whole new lifestyle. If the lifestyle is not a good one - grow up and change it. Get a job, a place of your own and start over. Even if she is lying about you it doesnt have to ruin you. Distance yourself from her and your parents if you have to. Be an adult. You dont have to be in constant contact with people you love just because you are related if they are a negative influence on you or make you feel bad about yourself.
Prove her wrong or not. Whatever - just do what is right for you to have a happy and responsible life. Sometimes people come from disfuntional families but you can with God's help come above that. It doesnt mean you dont love or care for them. It means you arent going to let it ruin you. you dont have to play her games. Eventually your parents will tire of it too probably and as you grow and become more and more independant and responisble they will see you for the adult you have become. (more then likely).
Kathy
2006-08-01 04:34:30 · answer #2 · answered by c2god2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you live a good life they way you know your parents would like then there is nothing to tell. Doesn't your sister know she can loose the best friend she will ever have by doing this? YOu girls need to have a serious talk. Have your over for brunch and the three of you discuss it.
2006-08-01 04:29:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confront your sister and tell her that she wins, about how all her lies worked to manipulate your parents into believing all her lies, let her think she has the upperhand so then she reveals the truth (videotape or taperecord the conversation) That's about all the proof your going to need. Good luck!
2006-08-01 04:28:48 · answer #4 · answered by shae 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Explain to your parents what is going on and try to get as much proof as possible together to show your innocence in these lies that she is telling. Also talk to her and find out ehy she is doing this to you, maybe she just wants attention from you.
2006-08-01 04:27:58 · answer #5 · answered by girlfromflorida 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats not right
You need to get away from her asap i had a friend like that and i finally stood up to her and she changed cause she didnt want to loose our friendship confront her and dont go easy on her it might be hard but its worth it she will back off if you stand up to her
She knows she can get away with it thats why she does it so show her she cant anymore
Good luck
2006-08-01 04:27:28 · answer #6 · answered by roonie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At 23 you should be out of your parents house and making a life for yourself anyway. Your parents should do her a favor and throw her out too!
2006-08-01 04:29:18 · answer #7 · answered by I'manalienfrog 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-27 19:05:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If what she is saying is REALLY not true than I'd go to your parents and try to talk to them. Explain what's going on and ask for their help. Good luck.
2006-08-01 04:51:51 · answer #9 · answered by mom2havenandlace 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just brush it off liek it dont bother u, lies are lies ur parents will see they werent true, if they dont tell them
2006-08-01 04:26:34 · answer #10 · answered by Victoria 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋