Tell me what you think of me.......?

Question

Tell me what you think of me.......?
I am 5'8" i have wavy long brunette hair, brown eyes, i wear black t-shirts and tight ripped jeans every day, I listen to metal and rock, i DO cry and and i hate the world I think about suicide ALOT and i hate everything.....what do u think of me?

Dont insult me please, but i CAN take critisizm

I dont get bullied i have plenty of freinds but i just dont think andbody really understands me......

by the way if anybody wants to IM me feel free

I am a teenage male

Answer 1

i think if i wasn't already with somone i would want to meet you

Answer 2

Sounds like you are very unhappy and that you are looking outside yourself to people, stuff, and things to make you happy. You can only find happiness within and you have alot of garbadge and debree to sift through. I would assume that you are young, maybe in your teens or under 25.
Don't be ashamed or afraid to be yourself and sounds like you are still trying to find out who that is. I hear a rebel with a yell all in your psyche, why are you rebelling and what from? Life is a b***h but you have to take life by the collar and live it. You have something very unique to offer because you are here. Search deep within yourself, be honest and true to yourself, what is you passion? There are so many variances that have brought you where you are right now and reasons that you feel the way that you do that we in this forum don't know about. I wish it was something I could say to lift the weight off of you and make your darkness light. When I think about that we are all on a ball floating in endless space sometimes that helps me realize that my problems are minute in the bigger sceme of things. We are all plugged in by one thing and that is the breath and we all breathe. Please, keep breathing. The world is perfect, it is the people and what they do and what they create that makes the world seem terrible. Try to transcend appearances because nothing is as it seems.

Answer 3

I must tell you firstly that I'm not a psychologist/psychiatrist and have no training in the field.

I think you sound... normal and, you sound just like any other metal fan so, it's all fine.

I think you might be a bit pessimistic (with hating everything) but, even THAT is normal. What's happened in your life to make you so unhappy? Do you suffer with depression? How old are you? All this forms part of the final answer.

I don't know how you could contact me but, if you need a chat/friend, there's always one around to listen and mouth their opinions.

Don't ever take yourself as far as trying to commit suicide - it's the one thing you can't regret (unless it fails). When I get suicidal it's enough to scare me thinking, what if I don't succeed and I wake up a vegetable or.... Also, when I feel suicidal (I suffer with clinical depression so, there's not a hellofalot I can do to control it and, with depression you tend to get so low that you can't really care whether you care, you know?) I go out for a jog or do something I enjoy to keep my mind busy with something else (try something that works for you to relieve stress/keeps your mind occupied but not listening to music!).

It's been proven that metal and 'darker' music can actually impact your emotions. Perhaps lay off the hard stuff (the music) a bit - perhaps SOMETHING like the Beach Boys or something (it might sound stupid now) will lift your spirits when you feel low? You must sort that out for yourself, the Beach Boys just jumped to mind. I tend to grab my Beatles CD. You have to decide this yourself, I can only make suggestions.

A herbal supplement you can take is St John's Wort (that's not "wart" so, don't worry :-))

Counselling sounds like a load of bull and, even while you're being counselled it seems like a load of rubbish but in the long run it can make the world's difference. Don't see psychiatrists though, they just want to pop pills down your throat, try see a psychologist to delve into your deepest, innermost secrets, scars, heartache to bring it to a head and then deal with it after it has been established what makes you so angry/hurt so much.

I hope I mentioned something that helps you. Good luck and, remember, only YOU can make yourself feel better. The fact that you cry really touched my heart because it sounds like a cry for help and seems like you're hurt. Crying is NOT a sign of weakness, it's a way of release. If you tend to crop things up a lot and you don't generally talk about what bugs you, it can all affect your mental psyche.

If you need to chat, ever, get me on [e-mail]

Answer 4

You didn't give us your age or gender in your description, but I don't understand why you would kill yourself. Is there a reason behind your question, "Tell me what you think of me"? I feel like maybe your not giving yourself a chance at life and being happy. Maybe you're relying on what other people think to make this decision about yourself. I think you should figure out who you are first before you think about ending your life. If you are beyond your twenties then you have some serious problems to figure out. Usually people run into things that question who they are by then and they start making there personalities known and it doesn't change much from there. If you are younger than that then you have alot to think about. Mentally, times are tough. But think about raising a family and not knowing if you can provide for them. There is always going to be challenges heading your way, but you need to think rationally about your decisions. Ending your life is taking the easy way out, but really do you know where your going to end up? You only get one chance at this life, so why not just change what is bothering you and have a different outlook.

Answer 5

You had me until you mentioned suicide. It is ok to hate everything, just not yourself. Live free, enjoy life. You'll find a great lady one day and she'll show you that there is more to life.

I love a guy with long hair, I love a guy that loves rock n roll, I love a guy that cries too. See, life is grand. Go out, do something different, like going to a concert, the local hang out place. You'll find someone special there, that will like you for who you are!!

Answer 6

Sweetie, you sound young and full of raging hormones. Listening to metal and rock can make you think you hate everything. Thoughts are just thoughts and all things can and do change. You are hard on yourself and others.
I assume you put this in Women's Studies because you want a woman's opinion.

Answer 7

you sound nice but i think you need to sit down and talk your problems over i dont mean this nasty but you dont seem to have much confidence in urself. i used to be like that i used to get bullied and the was a number of times that i felt whats the point in life. but u must be strong. believe me people are so superficial and anyone who thinks there better than u is insecure. ur probaly worth at least two of them. p.s dont be too hard on yourself.

Answer 8

I think you are lonely but even in a crowd but you hide it well. I think you've given up on alot in your life. You haven't found that ONE thing that makes you happy yet. Don't give up. Suicide is not the answer to life's road blocks.

Answer 9

You are not to bad but comitting sucide is a bad thing that makes everybody feel a bit concious about you. Don't get angry i am not insulting you.

Answer 10

not being critical, but i know if you would think less about you and your issues and try to focus on others and their issues, you'd feel alot better about yourself. being fulfilled on this planet requires helping people. less selfishness and more selflessness. PEACE!

Answer 11

u sound nice and cute but stop thinking about suicide