so.. im going to HI-FI ireland at the wknd,, yeahhhhhh.... but... i no the minute we get there my bf is gonna get really drunk n take loadsa drugs,, like many ppl i know but he will start treating me like im nothing to him then when he sobers he pretends nothing has happened n just says that he cant remember... i really dont want that happening at the festival... any suggestions???????????
2006-08-01 03:59:46 · 19 answers · asked by Cami 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Don't go! Be a woman.
2006-08-01 04:03:21 · answer #1 · answered by thesweetestthings24 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like I said on your other question - drugs are BORING and people who take them become BORING and pathetic. I spent time trying to socialise with people taking drugs, and it was my only social scene for a while and I tell you, the best thing I ever did was lose those boring friends.
Okay, now friends don't owe you anything like that, but your boyfriend does have a responsibility to be a considerate loving boyfriend. If he can't do that, and it seems peer pressure is more important to him than caring for your feelings, I'd ditch him at this festival and go and have your own drug-free fun. See the bands you want, and experience the atmosphere and have a really great time. You don't need to traipse after him in his daze - he won't even know you're there so why bother?
Either that, or just dump him altogether. You're a stronger, brighter person than him. You don't need pills to make you experience happiness - you can get that yourself. It's a sad world where people need to buy their kicks. Lose them!
2006-08-01 04:16:13 · answer #2 · answered by Vix 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you seem to be one of those girls who likes the verbal abuse. I say that cause he most likely has done this before? I think you are a dipsh*t... I know the honesty is a little harsh, but i am sure i am not the first person to tell you this. Get rid of the guy and, cause you don't need a dude who does drugs anyway. You are also the type of girl that doesn't listen to a word anyone tells you?? Just marry the guy, have kids so he can verbally/physically abuse you and your kids. I think if you do all of this then you might open your eyes a little.
2006-08-01 04:07:20 · answer #3 · answered by kram_7777 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"wat will I do , or can I do???+?
Jfoster writes:
You have a difficult problem there but the solution is so simple.
You, are so much more worthy. You are a valuable human being who is important in this world. Why do you waste your time with someone who will steal your time from you by doing drugs or alcohol abuse?
You will meet so many more wonderful, intelligent , sober, clean people if you just let go of someone who is doing drugs and abusing alcohol.
You will be tied for the rest of your life to someone who will abuse drugs or alcohol. If he is that bad with the abuse now, he will grow to be worse as he gets older. EVEN if by some miracle he gets cured, there are thousands of good , clean sober people in this world who are waiting to meet you, waiting to treat you WONDERFULLY, waiting to treat you royally, and with respect ...even if they take a drink here or there.
His drinking is not the problem, it's the fact he is so disrespectful while he is drinking. YOU are TOO GOOD and TOO PRECIOUS to be treated disrespectfully.
Ask anyone and they will tell you that if they are your friend.
Good luck. Your solution is to ditch drug users and ditch people who cannot keep control of the alcohol they drink. Let them get cured first before they come to date you.
2006-08-01 04:33:30 · answer #4 · answered by jfoster 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you need to break up with him. If he cant get help and try to do whats right, your going to be the only one in the end to get hurt. Then you'll regret not saying anything!
2006-08-01 04:07:27 · answer #5 · answered by Bonita W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him to the police for taking drugs
2006-08-04 21:26:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is one thing about you that is screamingly obvious,you are as dumb as they come.Why would you want to be with a low-life like that?There are plenty of decent lads out there who would be happy to make YOU happy.Please,have some pride in yourself,dump him.
2006-08-04 20:03:52 · answer #7 · answered by michael k 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd ditch him right away and never mind about going anywhere with him. He's not worth bothering about if he acts like that. Find someone who deserves you and not a looser like him.
2006-08-01 04:15:40 · answer #8 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you know this
isuggest you stay at home
or tell him no drugs and not to mush beer
or leave him and find a better life with somebody else
2006-08-01 04:04:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm tell him 2 nt gt to drunk if he says no tll him thht ull nnt gi wid him end of story
goood lucc
2006-08-01 04:10:43 · answer #10 · answered by cassidy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all, ditch him sounds mean!
second of all take a friend u deserve to have a good time without tht "bf" of yours
2006-08-01 04:06:30 · answer #11 · answered by gabby d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋