2006-08-01 03:59:12 · 11 answers · asked by OOO! I know! I know! 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
NOT ME.
2006-08-01 04:02:57 · answer #1 · answered by TraceyH 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, my step dad has been with me since I was 3, he showed me love, and spent time doing things with me that my father never had time to do with me.
When I was married.....I had them both walk me down the aisle. Because one had given me love, and one had given me life. (I don't know if they were fighting behind my back)! But I didn't feel anything.
Now my mom and my stepdad are seperated and I find most of my anger towards my mom for making the desicion to leave him, but I am sure they have their reasons, but he will still be my dad and he will still be there for me.
I think it takes a very special person to step into the role of fatherhood/motherhood for a child that isn't theirs. And I think that they should have a special hallmark day devoted to those people. Not all turn out to be Cinderella's evil step mother!
2006-08-01 11:12:51 · answer #2 · answered by rdhedhottie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well half and half. I love my step dad to death. He has always been there for me, and I know that he loves me like his own daughter. But I hate my step mom. We don't even talk anymore. She doesn't even know that I am married even though my dad was there. LMAO It just depends on the step parent I guess, and their interaction with the children.
2006-08-01 11:04:55 · answer #3 · answered by heatherdrake2005 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a step parent is usually always going to be a problem for the children, you just have to look at the way he/she makes your mom/dad feel. i love my step dad as if he were my father, my mom met him when i was 12. he makes my mom very happy and treats her like a queen. after i grew up a little i realized this and he is a really cool guy.
2006-08-01 11:30:12 · answer #4 · answered by tandy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I raised a set of twin boys and i love them as much as my own blood and if you ask them who is there father they'll tell you that i am.one is a school teacher now and the other works for the state in law enforcement.After 18 years of marriage i divorced there mother for adultery and desertion,they know it wasn't my fault.one has a daughter the other has 2 boys and 1 girl,I think he finally found out what was causing that,ha,ha,But i am proud of them and they call me grandpa.I had a step father that was mean to me.I think that may have had a effect on how i feel about them,they both played baseball and i have spent many hrs. with them and supporting them,there mine. but i tried remarrying and she hated my kids,I had to divorce her for what she did to my youngest daughter.here is two sides hope it helps you but don't let anyone run over your kids,,Marshall..
2006-08-01 11:29:49 · answer #5 · answered by freshstart 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes!!! Definetly...this person could be as much as your closest friend. If you give them a chance. If your parents are divorce, and one of them or both remarried or hooked up with someone else...and they are happier than they were before..by all means be happy for them. One rule is that.if your parents are happy you are happy because they are in great moods all the time, they feel alive and appreciated. Wouldnt you want for your parents to be happy for you if you had that someone special that made you happy?? Do to others what you would want for you. There has to be something awesome about the person who your parent is currently with.
2006-08-01 11:09:03 · answer #6 · answered by Vanessa G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am an adult now, and felt that I hated my step dad when I was a teenager, but he is really an amazing person, and I am so glad he was there to guide me, when my father wasn't.
2006-08-01 11:22:28 · answer #7 · answered by tear streaked angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I love my step dad. It took some time but he is a great guy, loves my mom and really is a better dad to me than my own ever was.
2006-08-01 11:42:48 · answer #8 · answered by katybeth212001 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I love my step-dad. We didn't get along really well when he I still lived at home, but now that I have my own place and family we get along great. He is so good to my mom, and she deserves a good man.
2006-08-01 12:34:39 · answer #9 · answered by just4funyall 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, very much. My stepfather is wise, kind, loving and makes my mother very happy. After 23 years of marriage to my horrible father, she deserved someone wonderful and she found him.
2006-08-01 11:07:37 · answer #10 · answered by amivins 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope... I hate the biactch!!!
2006-08-01 11:05:30 · answer #11 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋