i broke up with my boyfriend he was selfish and unkind, i cared about him but he was making me miserable,lying to me and constantly flirting with my friends, also not supporting himself what was his was his,what was mine was also his.....but now i feel this horrible emptyness and i dont know why???
2006-08-01 03:29:33 · 5 answers · asked by Jamni@ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Honey, I went through the same thing with my ex-husband, of oh, 17, years of, "Off & Ons" and I finally came to the conclusion, that his type of guys are just Losers, after 17, years, I finally nailed what he was all about, and believe me, I thought we were "Soul-Mates" and sometimes I still do...... And it bothers me too, because, I cant picture me ever, loving someone else, like I did him....... But, there's no going back, for me, because, he just trampled all over my heart, and he was "Abusive, physically & mentally" and I just had , had all I could take!!! He was always running around on me, and never let me ever go anywhere without taking one of my kids with me, I never got a break, from anyone, but yet, he could go anywhere for hours, without me.....It was totally a one-sided, marriage! If I were you, try to think, of how you were when you two weren't together, so you could get your sense of self back, and move forward......Try making new memories with your friends or family, or with a new guy friend, that perhaps, has the potential of being more than a friend down the line........Its hard at first, thinking you cant live without them, but that all can be because they did so much for us, when we suppported them, and they maybe were "Great-Lovers", but its only sex, a two minute high!!! And if he's that way now, he'll probably never change!!! I always thought my ex would change every time I left him, but, I always forgot about his bad sides, and this time around, I'm making darn sure not to forget his bad sides, you know......Because, no woman deserves to be treated the way I was, and you too!!! Good -Luck, to you!!! And remember Today's the first day, of the rest of your New life without him!!! Just make the Most of it, and do your Best to remember, why you left him, and keep those memories alive, so you dont get hurt again, by him, or anyone like him again, you know.......Smile......
2006-08-01 03:56:29 · answer #1 · answered by Hmg♥Brd 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Because you gave him everything you had to give and got nothing in return. You really did not love him for who he was but for the man he might have been when you first met him, but unfortunatly many men and women change during a relationship some for the better some for the worse. Just look at it this way he lost one of the best things in his life....did you??? NO What did he do for you but cause you a headache? Nothing so dont fret ur self over losing something that was nothing more then a nussiance
2006-08-01 10:38:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's why it's called being heartbroken. Your hurting because it sounds like you gave it your all and he gave nothing in return. Your really better off without him, move on and eventually you will find someone who compliments you and shares your views. Good luck!
2006-08-01 10:34:58 · answer #3 · answered by shae 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
coz we girls r sensetive and we care abt people nt like guys.... who think they can gt wateva they wan
go gurl we all suport go ina a club and meet new guys go out in dates don let this freek
bother u
goood lucc
2006-08-01 10:47:16 · answer #4 · answered by cassidy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont no but i sure no dt am also hurting real bad so it aint only u sister.
2006-08-01 10:54:54 · answer #5 · answered by jane 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋