don't let people take advantage of you make them do it for a change
2006-08-01 03:27:17
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answer #1
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answered by Chesh » 5
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I have the same problem with my family. In fact, I'm guilty of it myself sometimes. The problem is that you're always there to do it for them. Instead of just doing it, SHOW them. Tell them that they have to learn for themselves how to do things because you're not always going to be there to do it. Encourage them to be more independent and ALWAYS follow through. Say no sometimes or just be too busy. They'll start getting the hint.
2006-08-01 03:30:46
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answered by Pumpkin 3
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Is this the only country your family has lived in? Maybe they just need to be taught how to do those things so that you can have a break.
2006-08-01 03:28:17
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answered by murph_ltt 5
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Well aren't you just the smarta**e?
Get a life of your own and see if your family struggles without you. If they manage OK, then you've been well and truly taken for a mug!
2006-08-01 03:28:08
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answered by Marinersfan 5
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teach them how to do some of the stuff and maybe they will catch on...and make it seem like a game or competition where you win something...that always get's ppl going..:)
2006-08-01 03:29:36
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answered by anuadeola 2
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first off its not your job nor is it your problem
quit inableing your famliy they need to know that your gonna move out one day and yea eventually your gonna die so they need to learn how to do things on there own. grow up so no im sorry its not my problem or im sorry you feel that way and walk off......dont let others walk all over you or they will always walk all over you. be your own person
people pleasing is not they way to live,.because youcant please everyone.
2006-08-01 03:29:46
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answered by abbie24 2
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They are making you do the work and they are depending on you for too much.
2006-08-01 03:27:49
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answered by austinguurl 3
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I think they have just gotten into the habit of getting you to do it for them.
2006-08-01 03:28:09
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answered by kitkat 7
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hey its the same in this house too-be flattered that your needed so much lol x
2006-08-01 03:27:23
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answered by buggerlugs 6
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teach them once
2006-08-01 03:27:24
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answered by aao_naaa 2
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