formally i trust her,but after i caught her several times with guys cheating on me i never trust her again.She does not accept her mistake and beg she lies a lot.but we love each other.what should i do.
2006-08-01 02:33:04 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I think that you really need to ask your self what love means to you and what love means to her? A relationship's foundation requires trust and faithfulness. The fact she is lying is bad cause were Did lying ever get any body. Sit down and talk to her about how you are feeling, ask her if it is something that you are lacking. You need to realize that you deserve better than that. Remember it is better to hurt a little than to hurt the rest of your life.
2006-08-01 03:07:45 · answer #1 · answered by Ellie H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cheater is always a cheater. She's not for you. Move on and forget about her. If you break up with her and become only friend she's just going to hurt you more. If she loves you, she wouldn't do that to you and just be with you not other guys at the same time.
I know people like that, they don't want to see and fix their mistake, but when they get older or about to die they will cry and then, all late about it will start looking and begging for forgiveness.
2006-08-01 09:44:27 · answer #2 · answered by Gloria (Madison) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a serious situation, you will have to put Ur foot down and take Ur stand as this is something which u should not ignore. You have to be absolutely sure that what she is saying is a lie...and if you have already given enough opportunities to improve, personally I don't think u should continue with this relationship as this is going to end some day in a bitter way...better late than never.....As i said be absolutely sure that whatever she said is a lie and then take ur stand mate it is ur life....
2006-08-01 09:41:50 · answer #3 · answered by shantosh_s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you overlooking the obvious? If you don't trust your girlfriend, she shouldn't be your girlfriend. And if she loves you so much, why is she cheating? That's a harsh fact, but it's even more harsh to continue kidding yourself about someone who can't remain true. You're opening yourself up to a world of heartache when you don't have to. Your first statement said it all: " I don't trust her my serious girlfriend..." What else is there to talk about? Good luck to you.
2006-08-01 09:50:48 · answer #4 · answered by Captain S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seriously, you should kick this gal to the curb. If she has cheated once she is going to cheat again. And no, she does not love you if she is cheating. You are just buying her stories when she does it and you take her back. Quit being the fool and move on.
Good luck!
2006-08-01 09:38:31 · answer #5 · answered by Raspberry 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she cheated on you more than ones that is one reason to get rid of her, and the second reason is a relationship is based off of trust, if you dont trust her than you dont have a very good relationship and you are just wasting your time. if you dont trust her than you dont love her.
2006-08-01 09:38:58 · answer #6 · answered by babygirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems that what you have is not love but just a fear to move on....
This situation is not going to change. Why should it? You just take her back anyway. Move on. You'll both be better for it.
2006-08-01 09:57:16 · answer #7 · answered by Bud 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dunno dude i wud say try to make it work if u luv her but if she keeps cheatin no matter how much u try u cant change dat and if u stay wid her theres the chance of her hurtin u over and over by cheatin on u so i guess give her 1 last shot and if she messes up again break up wid her bcuz at least u know u tried and still it cudnt work out
2006-08-01 09:38:56 · answer #8 · answered by Matthew 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave her. Rid yourself of her. She will wound you more and more.
It is the wrong kind of love that you have with her.
You are destined to be with someone else.
One door closes, another opens.
2006-08-01 09:37:50 · answer #9 · answered by vixenrules80 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not a good relationship for you in the long run. You really should break up.
2006-08-01 09:38:28 · answer #10 · answered by lost_irish_75 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋