I work in a job where no one speaks and live with a couple who are never their just split up with my girlfriend and all my friends who ive been there for in the past seem to be off enjoying there lives without me how do I stop feeling so detached from everything. im also skint!
2006-08-01 02:23:47 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You have to do something. The feeling of lonelyness when nobody calls you of keep in touch with you is very sad. It is very nice when people you have for friends think about you and gives you a call now and again. So, why is it that they dont?
Maybe they are busy and on holiday. Maybe they are occupied in their own lives with work, chores and family. Maybe they are sitting in front of their own tv feeling lonely. Maybe you need to meet new people.
You can do something now. Start thinking about who are friends and who are people you know a little. Who are people you would like to have a relationship to and how do you think they feel about you. Give people a call, suggest a party, suggest a get-together. Go to a cafè with someone. Make a deal with yourself: at least once pr week you do something with friends out of your house.
It can also be ok to make this deal with yourself to include family. At least once pr week meet them: invite for dinner, go see them.
Good luck.
2006-08-01 04:16:31 · answer #1 · answered by Tones 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get yourself involved in new activities. Join a health club so you can make new friends. Or volunteer your time to an charity of your choice.
2006-08-01 09:28:35 · answer #2 · answered by missy1978 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm much more skint than you & yet I dont know what to do,any ideas????????????
2006-08-01 09:33:29 · answer #3 · answered by Maro's mom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go out somewhere.
2006-08-01 09:50:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋