i love her more than anything in this world, and she also loves me..
what to do friends.. ? suggest me..
2006-08-01 02:20:44 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If you love her then be her FRIEND!
Put your self in her husbands place! How would you feel?
be her friend and help her in bad times, and laugh with her in good times there is great joy in having an honest and true friendship! Don't tread on hot coals!
2006-08-01 03:39:06 · answer #1 · answered by BlackWidow 3 · 5⤊ 0⤋
First of all ask yourself, will you love her kids too? That is very important, keep in mind that if you are going to break up a family (which I really do not recommend) she is most likely going to have her kids full time. Depending on thier ages there will either be a lot of playing, yelling, crying going on or they will be very mad at you for doing this to the family. Kids also get sick in the moddle of the night. There will be vomit, diarrea to clean up and trips to the emergency room. You are not just going to be having fun with her like you would if you were to marry a single person. You are going to turn into a husband adnd dad all at once. or step dad I should say. Plus there is the exhusband. He is always going tobe in your lives because of the kids. Is this reqally what you want?
2006-08-01 02:33:50 · answer #2 · answered by missy1978 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Run a mile ... All hell will break loose if her husband finds out, then you'll end up with a woman and 3 kids at the time you really don't need them - what would happen if you met a SINGLE woman tomorrow who lit up your entire world? Would you turn her down for this other woman and live the rest of your life waiting and hoping?
Get a life ... get an unmarried woman!
2006-08-01 02:57:06 · answer #3 · answered by Marinersfan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mr. bachelor, I suggest you get you a bachelorette because dating a married woman will cause you problems you don't need as a self proclaim bachelor.
If she truly love you, I hope she's getting her personal house in order meaning her marriage instead of involving a third party meaning you in her marital problems because this is a recipe for
a relationship disaster with you.
If your love is so great, I don't see what's the problem with your married friend resolving her marriage in order to be in a loving relationship with you.
2006-08-01 02:32:26 · answer #4 · answered by words from the heart 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK....the first thing you did wrong was get involved with a married woman to begin with. She might "love" you, but keep in mind, she has a husband....and doesn't need another one. The best thing you can do for YOURSELF is end this relationship before it goes any further. You're only asking for tons of trouble. Ask yourself....."what if I were her husband now and she were out doing this to me?" Is that what you really want? That should answer all the questions you have about this woman!
2006-08-01 02:28:37 · answer #5 · answered by trueblond195 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she's married guy, there's your answer. Do you forever want to be known as a family destroyer. Her kids will always know you as the one who broke up their family, no matter what the situation is.Stand up & find your own woman instead of one in a rut looking for a way out or a play thing.Be a man!
2006-08-01 02:34:08 · answer #6 · answered by jason s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have no respect for men and women who play adulterous games. And what you are doing is nothing more than that. To continue this while the woman is married is setting a disastrous model to her children. How in the world can you respect yourself? For shame.
2006-08-01 02:28:18 · answer #7 · answered by rrrevils 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's just playin u.She luvs having a boytoy on the side & on the regular.The fact dat she's married & ain't willin 2 do none bout it show dat she cares bout no1 but her selfish self-U would do a lot better if u could concentrate ur efforts on sum1 else than her(sum1 who's unattached).Save urself from misery & heartache.
2006-08-01 02:47:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The chapter ends.she is married.No intermission.There are plenty of single women out there.If the married women can love u (by cheating her husband),there are many reasons to think she would cheat u too.
2006-08-01 02:43:18 · answer #9 · answered by aquarian 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you want a woman who is a liar and a cheater. Also what kind of a mother is she to put the welfare of her children on the line because if her husband finds out he can get custody of them. What is wrong with both of you?
2006-08-01 02:29:28 · answer #10 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋