My mother makes all her children unhappy?

Question

My little sister of 17 lives with my mother, but my mother loves herself so much, that there is no space in her live for me or her other children. She made it so bad on herself, that my older brother sad to her, "I do not wich to see you no more", my sister told her the same thing a few week ago. My mother is about 45, but she behaves like a 14 year old. I dont know what to do anymore. My little sister is unhappy and so is my older sister. I wanne make it all better again, but now it feel like, I'll become a millionnair faster, then making this better.
Please can any of you help me? I really start hating my mother more and more, and I don't want that. She is still my mother.
Why does she hate us so much?

Answer 1

Maybe her life is overloaded; many children and a house to care for. Does she work outside the home?
Maybe you can lighten the load at home for her. Do some things without being asked to. Make a meal; do the dishes.
Is she divorced? Many times a parent wants to be with the boyfriend, and the kids take a back seat.

Answer 2

Seek counselling. Maybe she is not well. She is the only mother in the world for you love or hate her.

Answer 3

if it is really that bad then you all can go to counseling even if your mom won't go. or you can try to make room.