i mean how to make sure of my feelings that they are really true love not just respect..
is sharing same values and intresets enough to feel love?
what is love about?
2006-08-01 01:16:47 · 3 answers · asked by helix 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Love is sharing!
Love can be an infactuation, but the strenght of it matters. Love is not blind, as like many say! Love shouldn't be blind!
You must confirm your love with proper testings within you. Love involves cognition! And it has to..!
Think about your love..
Why do you like her?
What is really pulling you towards her?
How she'll know about you?
What role do you expect her to play in your life ?
Will she be perfect for that role?
Are you really loving her for her physique, voice or any other external attributes..?
More! And more, if you want!
Think more man! Coz, love is dangerous and risky! And you should take that risk for someone really worths!
All the best!
2006-08-01 01:35:21 · answer #1 · answered by Artin 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It will take time. Here are some questions to give you good indications to see if it's just friendship or love:
Do they declare their love for you to others?
Have they introduced you to all their friends and family?
Do they discuss long term plans with you?
Art they making personal plans that will accomodate you in the long term?
Here are just some additional indications.
1) They are willing to be open about your close relationship with all of the people close to them.
2) You both do uncommon, and very helpful things for each other.
3) You get nauseated at the thought of losing their company.
4) You are kind to each other.
5) You help each other achieve both your common and independent goals.
6) You will have strong emotions, but strong emotions are not enough to tell you whether you are in a lasting and healthy love. You can have strong emotions and attraction to things that are bad for you also.
"Love" can be defined in so many ways. So your question is open to many answers. I've tried to give some indicators for healthy, long term love.
2006-08-04 07:23:33 · answer #2 · answered by onemorealternative 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is a friendship that has caught fire.
2006-08-01 01:24:06 · answer #3 · answered by sheeny 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋