I have been with my ptr for 9 months & have lived together for the last 7 mths. My ptr accepted a job that he applied for before we met & the job required he relocate 9 hours away from where we originally lived. Our relationship prior to moving in was great - lots of fun & happy times. Our relationship ended briefly at the beginning of 06 after he moved away but we got back together & I ended up transferring so we could be together. During the last 6 months our relationship has changed (I've lived with a ptr before so understand things change when you start living with a ptr) & my ptr has become argumentative (no matter what I say he always disagrees) & controlling of the $. As I don't have any family/friends here I spend alot of time alone & have lost alot of confidence as my ptr tells me I've changed. I am scared to go spend $ (I work full time and earn great $) or have an opinion. I dont know if I should continue with the relationship or head home cause I feel like it must be me.
2006-08-01 01:15:15 · 5 answers · asked by Kat Kat 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Leave, nothing good is coming from this relationship.
2006-08-01 01:24:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is making you feel like it's you that has the problem, then maybe you should consider going back home, before it's too late. It takes two to make a relationship work or not. Maybe he is not ready to have this type of commitment. So you should have a good talk with him, in a non-threatening way and let him know how you feel. Also, listen to him. Ask him what he is feeling and why he is behaving like this. Then you either decide to work it out, or you should go back home and move on with your life. The right person may still be out there waiting for you. You can chalk this one up to experience.
Good luck.
2006-08-01 01:22:19 · answer #2 · answered by BluePassion 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The question you must ask yourself.are you going to be able to live the rest of your life like this if you guys decide to get married,and where do you picture yourself in 10 years and are you going to regret staying with him having basically no say in anything.The other thing you should follow your heart and jmo I would leave his *** and go back home.you deserve better.
something silmar happened to me:I was dating a guy and He did not want me talking to any guys(my friends)or my family.He watched over me like a hawk,He hated my sisters calling me pudding.He asked me to marry him on the second date and I'm like no and in the end I only lost about $500.00 worth of my stuff cuz he stole it all
2006-08-01 02:29:15 · answer #3 · answered by Nails 4 breakfast,tacks 4 snacks 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you might not want to continue with this relationshihp. This man is putting you down so he could feel better about himself. You do not have to head home, if you feel the job you have now is better than the one before.
Ihope that helps you make a decission
2006-08-01 01:22:58 · answer #4 · answered by thuraya_m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i would move out if i was u there no reson to be unhappy with someone go back home orsome where new if ur lone now u may find out it was just with him
2006-08-01 02:30:02 · answer #5 · answered by eagleheart242000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋