2006-08-01 01:06:36 · 14 answers · asked by femina377 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Theres a whole heap of things that people can tell you NOT to do but i dont like negativity, Im more of a pro active type.
Im not married and dont believe marriage at all but this is my advice anyway:
* First decide what it is that you think would make a good husband. Make a list if you need to.
* Then each time you meet someone who is a possible contender list all the pros & cons about this person.
* Eventually, you will find someone you has every single one of the qualities in your first list (or close enough as most people have no patience.)
Theres someone out there for everyone love! You just have to make sure you know it when comes along. Good luck!
and when you do.... make sure you tell him how you feel.
2006-08-01 01:30:37 · answer #1 · answered by miss2sexc 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
First stop looking for him and let you find him naturally. When we hope for certain things be careful what you get.
Stop looking for a husband and let this come naturally. Say you meet a man don't let him know firsthand that your looking for a husband.
Date for awhile and if one day this man looks at you and wants you to be his wife, he will ask you and it will be more genuine.
I stress date for a substantial length of time before going down the aisle so you can at least get to know something about the person you want to spend the rest of your life with.
So I say, please be patience and don't go looking for a husband and let him come genuinely without feeling pressure from you to get marry because this could chase a potential good man away.
2006-08-01 09:05:57 · answer #2 · answered by words from the heart 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you're asking how to find him, and not for what the right qualities right? Not sure but......
I would suggest that you get involved in things that you might find someone who interests you. Take a class of something you like.....photography, cooking, karate, biology. whatever you are into. It's important to not only find all those obvious qualities (good work ethic, manners, kindness, sense of humor) but to find someone who you share some interests with. Someone who is taking a class obviously is dedicated to something.....which I think is a good quality. Then you have something in common that you can use to strike up a relationship with.
2006-08-01 08:13:30 · answer #3 · answered by paintgirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've got some very good tips. I'd add, don't think you can "fix" a guy and don't look for a guy to "fix" you. The best relationships are negotiated on a level playing field. You aren't responsible for him, he's not responsible for you. BUT you are both responsible for helping each other and providing a soft place for the other to fall.
2006-08-01 08:27:49 · answer #4 · answered by DelK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be a fun and interesting person to be around. Present yourself at social opportunities attractively and confidently being interested in others. There is a fine line between smiling and flirting and coming on too strong and appearing desparate....don't cross it. You'll attract the fellows and of course choose carefully!
2006-08-01 08:24:05 · answer #5 · answered by Seagoat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get off the computer...go somewhere that has males. Find one. Strike up a convo. Repeat process until one is interesting. Go on 5 or 6 dates. Do the do. Find out he's cheating on you. Dump said male. Repeat until happily married. Welcome to life...it's not that easy.
2006-08-01 08:12:32 · answer #6 · answered by zetser 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Check out his friends, if they are decent the guy in Qs is a decent sort of guy. A man is known by the company he keeps, unless he owns Microsoft.
2006-08-01 08:11:07 · answer #7 · answered by Rainbow 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the only tips, i have to give is that the right man will soon be in your reach, but that doesnt mean u shudnt continue to look. but where ever u go theres some one who admires you alot. just be smart to choose the rightful one.
2006-08-01 08:10:23 · answer #8 · answered by beautyprincess 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't pressure anyone and don't try to force a relationship. Get your life in order and be happy being you and you are more likely to find someone to spend time with.
2006-08-01 08:09:46 · answer #9 · answered by therego2 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Respect yourself first and know how to make yourself happy. This way you will not depend on others for your happiness. If you are happy with yourself, you will be able to recognize what you need in a partner and be able to recognize a geniune suitor.
2006-08-01 08:11:45 · answer #10 · answered by sahel578 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋