ok so me and my bf had sex about 2 weeks ago and i have all the things everybody says u have when ur pregant but i had my monthly also i can't take a hom pregant test cuz i'm under age i'm 16 and i don't really want to tell my mom i think i am unless i am so plz help me i'm like throwin up my boobs hurt and i get really bad craps so do think i can
2006-08-01 00:57:01 · 25 answers · asked by pooh_lover132000 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Well girl it sounds like you just might be pregant. But dont ask someone else to get you a test like some of the othe people have suggested. Its just not right talk to your mom. Yeah she is going to be upset bc you are still very young and raising a baby is going to be tough but now you have to start thinking like a mom. If it was your daughter would you want her going to someone else instead of you when she thinks she is in trouble and needs help and guandince? Give your mom a chance to be your mom and help you go talk to her. Dont make it worse by trying to hide it from her or by going to someone else that will only hurt her worse and make her madder.
2006-08-01 01:25:30 · answer #1 · answered by starrmerlan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are pregnant you wouldn't be experiencing symptoms yet. Symptoms don't come on till around 6 weeks pregnant. So that's all in your head. Once the egg implants (usually 6-12 days after ovulation) then your body starts to produce hcg. It takes a while for the hcg to get into your system and cause symptoms. Why can't you buy a home preg test at 16? I got pregnant at 17 with my first and well, I was underage and still bought tests. You can buy a test. So go buy a test and take it in a week or two.
2006-08-01 01:44:29 · answer #2 · answered by ktpb 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, do the sensible thing and go to a healthcare provider to find out if you are pregnant. Your healthcare provider is bound by law to keep your visit and information confidential, so your mom will never know unless she's attached to your hip.
Second, tell your mom, I know this is scary and you're afraid that she'll blow her top, but she's also your mom and she loves you and has a right to know. More than likely she is going to have to support your child because you're probably not gainfully employed at 16. She is your best friend in this!
Third, if you are, sit down with your boyfriend and his parents, inform them that he has a responsibility to help care for this child and you expect him to deliver.
Fourth, look into your options, at 16 having a baby is a life changing decision. There are other options available that will allow you to continue through highschool and on to college. Adoption and abortion, even if controversial to some are still good options.
Fifth, if you decide to keep the child, transfer to a highschool with a daycare program. Staying in school is the best thing you can give this child and ensure it has a future.
2006-08-01 01:09:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah you can be pregnant my mom had her monthly half the pregnancy Go to your local walmart and get a 1st response test those are usually better.If you are you should tell your mom and talk to her though she may do like my mom is I'm 16 and can pop any min. my mom has supported me the whole way threw even though my bf left me about the 3rd month b/c he was scared. Good luck!
2006-08-01 01:57:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, you dont have to be 18 to buy a friking test. Next you can have you period when you pregnant. Last a lot of the symptoms of pregnancy are also the same symptoms Of PMS.
And I dont care what any one says.... Wait until you find out for sure before you tell your Mom.
2006-08-01 01:06:18 · answer #5 · answered by biscuit 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't buy a preg test where are you from? I have never heard that you can't buy a preg test if your underage. I've been married since I was 16 and I bought them all the time. I was never asked for an ID. You can go to your health dept and ask them for one, and they have to keep everything confidential. Good Luck any ways!!
2006-08-01 01:12:53 · answer #6 · answered by victoriaelaine2004 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you go to the health department they will give you a test, it doesn't matter that you're 16. With that said, you need to tell your mom, no one will give you more guidance or support during this. My mom has been a life saver!
2006-08-01 07:20:00 · answer #7 · answered by Nikki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um no body can tell u that ur pregnant if u think ur pregnant u need to get a test done, if u can't buy them because of some dumb law where ever u from then get some one of age to do it for u.
2006-08-01 01:06:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You had your period, but anything is possible these days! I know of people who had thier period for more than a month and was pregnant. Your going to have to take a test. Get someone else to buy it for you or something, but no matter what your going to have to talk to your mom!
2006-08-01 01:04:27 · answer #9 · answered by SwtPrincess1128 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur 16....wow....and yea i think u are knocked up! you need to tell someone, and by someone YOUR PARENTS or mom or who ever. I just dont see the point in sex at 16...but yeah u and ur bf love each other and such but u need to let someone know. u obviuosly are panicking and you aren't sure of what to do. have someone help you
2006-08-01 01:03:56 · answer #10 · answered by Engela van der Walt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋