i want to marry a girl and my mother dont want this girl exactly and she dont have a good reason to refujese her but the problem that my mother is ill and if i repeat my request to marry this girl maybe she die in a heartattack so give me the answer
2006-08-01 00:55:39 · 13 answers · asked by thelost_light@yahoo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If your mother still has such an influence on you, you are too immature to get married.
2006-08-01 00:59:40 · answer #1 · answered by Kerry 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you going to marry this girl? Or is your mother marrying this girl? If you love this girl and you want to marry her, then you do it. Your mother has lived her life already. You can ask her what it is that she doesn't like about this girl. But if there isn't any good reason for it, then just keep dating her and see for yourself if you really love her and want to spend the rest of your life with her.
I doubt very much that your mother will have a heart attack if you marry this girl. Don't let this stop you from finding you happiness. If your mother has this type of control over you, then it's time you become a man.
2006-08-01 01:01:17 · answer #2 · answered by BluePassion 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you want the Honest truth?
Look at your question....no, really read it, your question alone tells me the same thing that your Mother sees.
You jump head first into the things that you do!
Now this is not a bad thing, with some aspects it is very good,... examples:work, creating new idea's and applying them, goals and how to achieve them I bet you jump right into a project first because of curiosity then finish it be cause your a head strong person.
Maybe your mother knows this but it is hard for her to explain this because you are her son and you would think she was just giving you a compliment but ignore what she was really trying to say, hum I dunno like don't marry this girl, she is not right for you! Who wants to live life with regrets! Listen to your Mother, would she tell you something that would hurt you or guide you in the wrong direction? No, it is her job to protect you!
2006-08-01 01:54:06 · answer #3 · answered by BlackWidow 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't let your mother's illness be the reason you don't marry this girl.
I think that NO mother is going to find the perfect person for her son to marry.
Unless this girl is like an ax-murderer or something..just marry her. Your mom will get over it and besides....last time I checked.....heart attacks don't come from someone talking about something...it is hereditary, bad choices in life etc.
2006-08-01 01:01:00 · answer #4 · answered by SouthernKNC 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it is not a good reason then she will not die of a heart attack. It is your life not your mothers so you should do what ever you want. She is not the one who is going to be married to that person so she should not have so much say in it.
2006-08-01 01:55:54 · answer #5 · answered by michiganwife 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Illness works strange on people....maybe she feels like if you marry you will not be there for her. You and your girl need to assure her you both will be there if she needs you. Yes I would marry if this girl is your life choice! DONT FEEL GUILTY FOR WANTING A LIFE!!!!
2006-08-01 02:22:38 · answer #6 · answered by mississippi queen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be able to marry whom ever you want. If your mom cant handle it its her problem she needs to let go and let you live your life. Do what makes you happy if you want to marry this girl explain to your mom why and maybe she will see whats making you happy and change her mind. If she cant be happy for you (even with your mom being ill) you should do what makes you happy and move on.
2006-08-01 01:21:29 · answer #7 · answered by spoiledrotten 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-14 17:22:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are not ready to make you own decision about marrying - then you are not ready to Marry.
Don't marry until you are ready - marriage requires commitment to survive the tough times as agreeable as the easier/ fun times.
When you are ready to make the marriage choice - you will realize that YOU are marrying this girl; your mother is NOT marrying her.
2006-08-01 01:03:08 · answer #9 · answered by me 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your mom wants your happpiness, I am sure of that.
Did you tell her you love her and the reasons why you love this girl?
Let her understand this first, then she'll probably accept the fact you're going to merry her.
Good luck!
2006-08-01 01:01:02 · answer #10 · answered by Lady Luck 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋