i walk in to my 13 year olds bedroom last night and saw her asn her bf in bed together with out clothes on and he was on top of her i dont know what to do
she is 13 and he is 15 and been goign out for about a year
2006-08-01 00:52:54 · 51 answers · asked by armywife2316 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
her father is over in iraq now so he cant really help and i had her when i was 13 so its kinda hard to tell her no
2006-08-01 14:19:59 · update #1
It is not a serious matter in 21st Century.
I think you don't feel any bad about your daughter and his boy friend. She is 13 and in her decades so she is 100% right to do as she wish as a good mother you teach her safe sex and leave them alone for some fun on bed.
I think you also know well what is real fun in human life. Yes it is S E X only S E X and nothing.
If you worried about her heath I suggest you to read some books about S E X and human behavior about S E X.
Think 100's time that you also start your sex life at same age, what you feel when you are alone. what is yours late night activities when you are hot and fire.
Don't do any wrong thing by which your daughter get any shook.
Thanks...............
2006-08-01 01:25:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 3⤋
You are the parent...you need to lay down the rules and not allow your 13 year old daughter to have a boy in the room and if you do allow it then the door must be open at all times. Then this would have not happened.
I blame you the parent for allowing her to have a boy in the room...I know when I was 13 I was not allowed to have my door closed at all if I had a boy in the room and I never had sex at 13 either.
Be a parent and responsible for your child and lay down those rules and enforce them. If you don't then your children will run all over you.
You need to tell your daughter that sex is for adults not children.
Better hope she is not pregnant...you do not want to be a grandma early in life.
2006-08-01 08:16:49 · answer #2 · answered by Coast2CoastChat.com 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her about it,tell her how she could have catched HIV's or AIDS and how she could have had a baby from that.I'm 12 years old and i wanted to have sex and have a baby when i was 9 years old but then my mom had another baby and i saw and felt how it was to have a baby.I also hear and see on the news and tv how people get HIV's and other things like that from having sex and end up having a baby if worst.Now i'm going on 13 and i don't want to have sex and have a baby.
2006-08-01 03:08:31 · answer #3 · answered by winxgirl3 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Accept the fact your daughter IS sexually active and insure she has protection available . There is nothing you can do to change what has happened and it's never a good thing to pick a battle you can not win. Weather it's this boy or someone else your daughter will make her own decisions but she may do so to spite you. If you have not talked with her about contraception now is the time.
2006-08-01 04:39:40 · answer #4 · answered by badmikey4 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you def. should have been talking to her before, because 13 is way too young to be having sex! I think 13 is too young to be dating someone for a year also! But it's too late for that now, you just have to talk to your daughter and have the parents of her boyfriend talk to him about this! Plus you shouldn't be having them alone in her bedroom either, that's just not right at that age!!!!!!
2006-08-01 01:06:34 · answer #5 · answered by SwtPrincess1128 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should have been a parent in the first place and not let them go into bedrooms alone. What kind of mother/father are you? You should be supervising them not leaving them alone for that long and not letting them go into rooms alone like that. Sure people are going to say that they will do it anyways but that is not true. My parents kept a good eye on me and I never did that sort of stuff.
2006-08-01 00:57:48 · answer #6 · answered by michiganwife 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you are going to allow her to keep dating...buy her birth control. If they weren't using any form of birth control you should get her a morning after pill so she won't accidentally get pregnant.
If she keeps dating that boy they are going to have sex again. So, you'll either have to ban her from dating till she is older or just accept that she is sexually active. Personally, I think 13 is too young to have a bf anyway.
2006-08-01 00:59:06 · answer #7 · answered by laetusatheos 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wot she is havin sex at that age. i suggest u have a talk to her and warn her bout all the diseased out there. But if she continues make sure its safe sex and get her and her bf tested 4 aids or any think
2006-08-01 01:19:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well heres a thought dont ban her from seeing him because she stil will. talk to her about safe sex and get a condom then tell her that you dont approve of her getting active at the age of 13 but let her know you still there for her
2006-08-01 05:13:04 · answer #9 · answered by Lana M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it is okey to have sexs at 13 years of age but just use a condom and you want get pregement ps dont do it in your house
2015-06-27 07:37:27 · answer #10 · answered by jakub 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋