Dear all, I need advice!
My guy lives in California while I am in Italy right now. I am trying to move there, but it will take some time.
I'll be on holidays from Aug. 14 and he's going through a rough time because of its work.
According to you, should I ask him if he'd like me to go there?
Would that sound like an "invasion", due to the fact I know he's really under pression??
Thank you.
2006-08-01 00:51:34 · 6 answers · asked by Lady Luck 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Hint around to him and see what he has to say about it.
2006-08-01 00:56:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 9⤊ 2⤋
I thin you can bring up the subject without coming right out and asking him. Like it's so beautiful here in California I think I would like to live here someday, and the best part is that you are here, The trouble with that is he may not get the hint, some guys are pretty dense sometimes, especially if there minds are on other things.
2006-08-01 07:56:55 · answer #2 · answered by Jim C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well....has he asked you to come over?
And do you know for sure that he is just "YOUR" guy? I mean he could have a g/f or wife in Cali and you are just a girl to mess around w/?
Reason I say this: I have a friend (Ex-friend now b/c of these) who travels to Hong Kong alot for business. He has a wife/kids here in the states and in Hong Kong he has a girlfriend. Neither know about the other and he is getting away with it....
so before you take off to Cali...you better make sure...Long way to get the truth slapped into your face.
2006-08-01 07:58:03 · answer #3 · answered by SouthernKNC 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he under pressure of work you must refrain from it. In any case you will move there after some time. Meantime wait for his call.
2006-08-01 07:57:01 · answer #4 · answered by openpsychy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know him, but I imagine he would probably appreciate the support!
2006-08-01 07:55:14 · answer #5 · answered by American citizen and taxpayer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You said it (INVASION)
2006-08-01 09:11:36 · answer #6 · answered by Firefly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋