i m annoyed wd all my frends nobody is upto my expectations. recntly i hd a break wd my closest frend(girl).i do not find anything interesting and find myself aimless.plz help me out and suggest some way to feel light.i wl be greatful to you.thnku!!!
2006-07-31 23:51:11 · 21 answers · asked by akash 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
teen angst... it all happens to the best of us...
dnt worry things will become better someday, when the hormones in your head start to calm down.
2006-08-01 00:06:17 · answer #1 · answered by Hobo_Hippie 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If it depression that is the reason you are sad and lonely, than you should talk to your doctor. You could even talk to church pastor or counselor if you feel more comfortable starting there. You could be stuck in a rut, we all get there sometimes. Maybe you need to stop and look at yourself and the situation a little closer, it is possible that your expectations of others are too high and those of yourself aren't quite high enough. I really hope that you get back on track and find out what is going on with yourself. I don't mean this rudely either. Just trying to help out, hope I have some how. Good luck, God be with you and prayer is another thing that works wonders. It doesn't always happen right away (in case you aren't very religious and/or don't pray) so, just give it time.
2006-08-01 00:00:42 · answer #2 · answered by cass 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me that you are likely suffering from the disease of depression. There is help out there. First see a psychiatrist and verify if you are depressed or not . There are several different medications that can be a tremendous aid. Next, talk to someone, a professional, about your FEELINGS. Get a recommendation for a professional counselor from your doctor or see a psychologist. Psychiatrist know the physical aspect to help you, but don't always make for very good counselors. Psychologist's are much better. They are trained to help you understand yourself. Both are expensive so if money is an issue see your local social services agencies. The same help can be obtained through them, but you must prove you otherwise cannot afford to pay 100% yourself. For emergencies call your local operator or use the phone book and get a "hot line" number to call someone to talk with about your problem. Don't suffer all alone, not when there is so much help out there......Good Luck!
2006-08-01 00:32:30 · answer #3 · answered by Benj 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am also facing the same problem exactly. But I think we suffer just because of our nature as we demand sincerety and purety which is usually not possible. I noticed , comparatively people always target what they required and keep flexibility with their personality but we totally demand upto mark person and secondary we are impatient and bitter too. We object lot and often fight which is not liked by anybody. We should change ourselves and try to give space to the other person. U must be Gemini or Cancer . Do tell me on my email godwish_a@yahoo.com
2006-08-01 00:03:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one ever lives up to really high expectations, that's not really fair to do to them because we are all human. Only God will never let you down.
When feeling aimless, find yourself at church and in a Bible.
It sounds like you have a God-shaped hole in your heart. You can find a renewed zest for life and warmth in your heart when you get involved with the right church.
Good luck!
2006-08-01 00:01:32 · answer #5 · answered by bburgandy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmm, somehow, im in the same situation. i have a lot of friends, but none of them is how i want them to be. i think we should try to mke new friends, or see the good part of the old ones. about you and your best friend, why dont you try to go talk with her, maybe you'll get along. if you feel sad, go outside in the sun, pick up some flowers, or, if you live in a city, go for a walk, for sadness, computer is prohibited!
2006-08-01 00:00:17 · answer #6 · answered by powerpuffgirl_2332 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-01 08:22:22 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The moment is now! Or it will be too late! Try not to expect too much, now. Try to appreciate and be happy with all the things around you, now! Take a deep breath, go, and try to embrace them, now! Now is the perfect time, every moment of ours is at risk! you must enjoy every single second or loose the joy of it! The time is now! Go and goodluck!!!
2006-08-01 00:01:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you feel sad and upset because you expect too much from them.. Just appreciate the people around you, and don't depend your happiness to them. Enjoy and cherish every moment with them.
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2006-07-31 23:57:17 · answer #9 · answered by yummy _me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey, you only said they are not to your expectations na why to be sad and lonely, start a new search for a new friend, who is to your expectations, world is so big if you are now broken with a friend you may be fixed with many. keep trying untill you get the best.
2006-07-31 23:59:26 · answer #10 · answered by Chikky D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have set your expectations of friends and people in general too high.!!
friends make mistakes and we annoy each other but then that goes away.
try setting your expections lower but not too low. and make new friends. having a best friend is there for you no matter what,
you need to like with yourself before a friend can like you.
2006-07-31 23:58:51 · answer #11 · answered by cats3inhouse 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋