actually i m in love with a grl.
now the problem is that we r not the same caste and her mother has refused me.
and she dont want to marry with me without her parents permission.
i luv her vry much & i can't think any thing without her.
right now i m doing mca
if u have any sincere suggestions, plz forw me
thanks
2006-07-31 23:45:10 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
you have to spend more time with the girl, make her love you a lot, if she really likes you, her parents' opinions wont stay in your way!
2006-08-01 00:04:27 · answer #1 · answered by powerpuffgirl_2332 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Huh..., Indian problem, American solutions. My dear as u lives in India, first of all u should complete ur study with good marks, then look for a job.......... good job.When u become completely independent, u can do whatever u like. Just wait till then. Probably when u get a job and become independent the mother of the girl may also agree with u.
And see, marriage in India is a matter of life time, its not like AAJ KIA KAL CHODA, so be sound before u think of it.
2006-08-01 07:48:08 · answer #2 · answered by Ashok 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have patience , lots & lots of it.first of all calm down.if u guys turly loveeach other there is just no way u wont get married......in the mean time dont do anything too drastic or something that ll hurt ur parents or hers.........all u can do now is pray , pray ,pray that u get married ti her in the best & the most easiest possible......& focus on how u can make that happen.........ask ur gf also to pray for this......convince her that u ll find a way to marry her without hurting her parents & with their full consent.......u two form a strong team that no one can break..then with a lot of gentleness,love,tenderness,respect &faith in God the two of u try to convince her mom........leave the choice to her mom,assure her u wont marry her until she consents & her blessings are very imp to you.........then wait & watch & ofcourse pray for the best outcome..............best of luck & God bless u
2006-08-01 07:32:25 · answer #3 · answered by tianchifuerza 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give her mother a quicky and kick the dad in the ***. then drug the girl and get married in vegas
2006-08-01 06:51:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
prove ur love and affection towards her and her family.approach her mother with some member of ur family and talk it open.say ur feelings.god is wd u.GUD LUCK!!!!
2006-08-01 06:58:34 · answer #5 · answered by akash 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
demonstrate her parents that you are really special. Show them what you can, but don't exaggerate, be yourself. Be the best of yourself.
2006-08-01 06:58:33 · answer #6 · answered by Soso 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she seems not at the same attitude, give yourself more time and let her share you with it.If she remain the same forget her.
2006-08-01 06:55:05 · answer #7 · answered by active1144 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u love her then prove it no other option
2006-08-01 07:04:06 · answer #8 · answered by cute gal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋