it makes me angry when people spread rumors. its unavoidable.
but how do u handle them if i know what they r saying is not true?
i hear rumors, my reputation is bad enough. its hard to make friends and have love becuase of it. my reputation was made false by a guy lying on me.the guy been apologized years ago for lying on me. but people still spread weird **** about me. me and my guy now are just friends becuase there is problems hes working on with himself. im angry because if im talknig to him, poeple go and spread things. what should i do to handle it? they are trying to spread around that i am obsessed and a stalkative person. it is not true. its making people not like me. my guy is not beliving them but i dont like the attention. i have a messnjer friend becuase of this and i dont like it and it makes my guy feel bad but he understands.how can you help me? grrr!! i feel violated and annoyed and alienated!!
2006-07-31 23:36:34 · 11 answers · asked by NONAME 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Spread rumors about the people who first started one about you.
2006-07-31 23:40:25 · answer #1 · answered by Wide Ruled Paper 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way to handle it is to ignore them. Don't mind it if you know that it's not true.. why bother if its not true right? It will just be a waste of time and emotions. Think about this, you might hear rumors, but don't let it affect your life. Do you think it will still matter after 10 yrs?
2006-07-31 23:43:23 · answer #2 · answered by yummy _me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
rumors are like mushroom, they came from no where and eventually dies. reacting to rumors wether true or not makes it worst. theres always action and reaction, just do what you feel like doing and ignore things, people that annoys you. it could be very irritating specially if it's not true, but what can you do? just live your life the way you feel like living and be happy, don't let anyone push you around. you are what you think you are and you become what you want to become. God Bless!
2006-07-31 23:49:42 · answer #3 · answered by roel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In every rumour there is an element of truth, but have you ever thougt of it from the angle that if you aren't inportant, no one talks about you and if people aren't scared of you, they won't talk behind you....................
Whatever they say good or bad, close your ears to them, it's your life and they don't have any right to tell you how to live it. You don't own no one an apolgy for your lifestyle if they don;t like it they should jump down mount everest because they can't be like you......................
Live your life like its your life and when ever they come to tell you anything about you, remind them that they aren't perfect, but anyway thank them for recognizing you coz you are an outstanding personality and they just can't help it...................
CLOSE YOUR EARS TO GOSSIP AND HAVE FUN! You deserve to smile and the best form of revenge is ignoring your offender!
2006-08-01 00:08:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't worry about them keep moving your way, you know what is right and what not about you. and you can answer if anyone asks you straight forward what is what, and the person starts supporting you infront of the 3rd person.
remember onething people who are more jealous of you make the rumors. they are jealous of you for what you have what they dont.
and i wish you a happy life.
2006-07-31 23:50:56 · answer #5 · answered by Chikky D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
start spreading rumors about everyone else. at least you'll get your revenge because there's actually nothing to do about rumors.
2006-07-31 23:40:38 · answer #6 · answered by ♫Pavic♫ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore them. The more you protest, the more you feed into them.
2006-07-31 23:38:57 · answer #7 · answered by julielove327 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to that person in front of many of peoplr and front on them make them fell how you fell flat out
2006-07-31 23:47:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ignore. u can't please others, the way u want it to be... let the rumors die itself naturally, it will, just take your time doing the same things that u did, and be yourself...
2006-07-31 23:44:19 · answer #9 · answered by kish-kish 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ignore them that's the best thing to do
2006-07-31 23:42:24 · answer #10 · answered by lasondraperry-graham 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋