i want to win custody of my 2 year old son am willing to do anything to get him?

Question

i am thinking of divorcing my wife but before i do that i want to have full legal authority over my son what am i supposed to do

Answer 1

I would speak with a lawyer.

Answer 2

You can't win custody the child still needs the care of the mother, unless, you prove beyond reasonable doubt that your wife is insane so she is unable to take care of the child, or she has had sex with another man in the presence of the child and such other inhuman things, and for the sex you have to have proof real e.g pictures.

Other wise in my country a man can only get full custody of the child if the child is 7 years and above, as long as the mother is able to take care of the child, you will only get to see your son maybe twice a week or something like that.

Otherwise, is divorce the best option? Think of this two year old son which needs both the love and care of the mother and father. The child will be distributed, please for the love of your son do not divorce your wife. Try to bury the differences and start on a new page.

Good luck, and think twice before you get a divorce for the sake of this poor child.

Answer 3

Then i would ask back the root of the question ? What is the reason you want to divoce your wife.......Why would you bring the children to this world then being selfish and divorce and take him away from his mother ? Why not you and your wife sit down and have a talk and search what is the problem that cause the divorce. How you ever think of your son feeling, how will he feel one day if he know he dont have mother and being humiliate by other people. How long u been married and if you think both are not for each other then why married in the first place ? Do you remember the time when you first court your wife ? She love you so much until she bore a son for you.....is this how you should treat your wife. When is the last time you tell your wife I LOVE YOU, DEAR. PLEASE !!! give yourself a break....divorce is childish act. If you are mature man settle things correctly and with sound mind......hope you can read and reconsider...

Answer 4

Well first off, you must get a decent lawyer for yourself, next you must make sure that you are a loving, caring devoted father, that will be able to support his kids, and be able to prove that to a judge. Also, any dirt you may have on your wife is crucial, because appearance is everything in the court room, and if your wife dresses nice, then that already increases HER chance of getting full custody. What you need to do is 1.) Make sure your appearance is better 2.) present your reasons for why SHE would be a bad parent.( If you can get something presented to a judge that is endangering the child, then you can win the battle on defensive tactics alone, but if she is just a mean person, then you are going to have to pull out income statements. being able to prove to the judge that you are a more financially stable will put the odds in your favor. After the custody battle, you can then proceed on divorcing your wife, and as grounds for divorce, you can use the victory of the Custody Battle against her. Hope I've helped.

Enjoy your day.

Answer 5

Not once in your question or remarks did you state you wanted your son because it would be better for him.

Forget what you want. Figure out reason it would be better for your son to be with you. If you want your son you better have all the reasons why it would be better for him. If you don't the courts will not let you have full legal authority over him. Chance are even if you do get custody of him you still would have full legal authority. Courts want both parents to have a say its called joint custody.

Answer 6

Have a stable, healthy environment for your son, have all your ducks in a row so to speak.. but be prepared in most states its very hard to take custody from a mother especially if she's a fit mother , especially at such a young age.... so ur really taking ur chances by leaving.. only way u can definately know for sure that u'll be in ur sons life every day is to fix whatever is wrong with your marriage..

Answer 7

The courts only abuse men. Um, join some of the men's groups on yahoo.

My wife hits me and if I report it then the cops just hit me. It's all very sexist and we're changing it slowly.

I read Kanga's out pouring above and let me tell you; 'joint custody' is just another way of saying the father get's abused. You need full custody or nothing.

And don't listen to all of the women on here; they've all got the same message; they think men are second class citizens and they think we must be forced ino slavery to finance women. Well they can go away, for we don't need that.

And notice that all of the feminists just come out with a thousand different ways of telling men we're wrong? Well just think of all the ways we could tell them they're wrong. It's easy. Men build, feminists just want to hurt.

Answer 8

Why do you want custody? If she is somehow unsafe, like a drug user or something, it is very likely you will be awarded full custody. If she's not, and you just don't like her, you'll probably end up with joint custody. A good attorney will be able to help you work through the legal system.

Answer 9

Face it ....The courts see a mother closer to the child because she carried it for 9 months. Even if you don't believe it, the mother and baby have been bonding ever sense it was formed in HER and the courts know these.....The only possible way you could get the child is if the mother was an unfit mother, abusive to the child, on drugs or neglecting it. But if you go that way YOUR dirty laundry (if you have some) will be shown to........

Answer 10

You are supposed to do what is best for your son, not what you think is best out of rage! Are you prepared to raise your son? Are you willing to let your son also know his mother? What scares me is the fact you say you are willing to do "anything" to get him. PLEASE whatever you do, go as fast as you can and seek counseling, before you ruin your life, his life, and maybe make the worst mistake of your life. Too many people do things out of rage and end up hurting everyone around them. Make sure you know what you are doing, because you are making the biggest decision of your life, and it will effect not just you.

Answer 11

for myself iam genuinly married for 4 years and i have a 2 year old son. sir all i have to say to you is review your decision of divorcing your wife. try solving it becoz i have seen my son and for him he wants both mumy and daddy and just imagine how that heart is going to take goinfg away from either parent.

sir just a week ago i asked my son what will you do if i go away and nev come back in perspective if i die. he replied i will play my bike and stay with dady till you come back and i will have dinner with you. i just cried at his reply as he doest know how the world is outside his home and people apart from his parents.

pliz keep yourself in the 2 yr olds shoes and give a good think before you make decision. hope you make theright choice.