this is the first guy that i am going to approaching a guy befor and i am scared very scared
2006-07-31 22:48:07 · 13 answers · asked by reesey 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Since it's the first approach you want to make a short positive presentation, hopefully you will have done some homework about the guy, and have some small-talk key points to hit on.
You want to smile, hold eye contact, and nod approvingly when he's talking. Steer the convo to your mutual common interests, where he'll have the chance to ask for your phone #, now if he's sorta slow on the pick-up, you may have to become the one who suggests the next move.
I have found people receptive when I say "You seem like someone I should get to know better. Can we get a cup of coffee etc.around here somewhere?"
Or try this: "we seem to have quite a bit in common and I think I would like to get to know you better. How about this Friday, I was thinking we could shoot some pool etc and chat for a bit."
2006-07-31 23:14:02 · answer #1 · answered by sunshine25 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then don't do it. Mature more first. If you had a strong self of self and strong self-confidence, you wouldn't be so afraid. It seems you need to do some more growing up or soul-searching. If you can't be confident, then he's going to see it.
2006-08-01 11:21:21 · answer #2 · answered by lindakb24 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself. Something that might help, is dress is something that you feel the most confident in! Make sure you're wearing this when you knock into him..!
2006-08-01 05:54:25 · answer #3 · answered by montanasamra 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, your English needs improving(this coming from a Romanian).
Second of all, just be yourself and talk to him like you talk to your friends.
2006-08-01 05:53:02 · answer #4 · answered by asd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be scared. Remember, you are the female, you have all the leverage. You have what he wants. You have the "goods". You have the power. Use it.
2006-08-01 05:51:38 · answer #5 · answered by canucklehead1951 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why you are so nervous , go and speak to him and get a very excited experience , he will love to hear again and again .
2006-08-01 05:53:12 · answer #6 · answered by your noon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HONEY, JUST BE YOUR SELF. YOUR HAVE MORE CONFIDENT THAT WAY AND YOUR NOT TRY TO BE SOMETHING YOU NOT. IF HE NOT DOWN WITH THE WAY YOU ARE THEN HE'S NOT THE ONE FOR YOU AND YOUR MR. RIGHT WILL COME ALONG.
2006-08-01 05:55:22 · answer #7 · answered by princess_tiger42084 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
(you met a gut - lol)
be yourself - don't se self conscious, guys like a woman who does not pretend to be something she is not.
2006-08-01 05:53:22 · answer #8 · answered by � Fuzzy Dice 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hm... Jus be yourself. Guys prefer it that way.
2006-08-01 05:51:32 · answer #9 · answered by justhink84 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try some tips on this site on how to ask him out
2006-08-01 05:52:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋