my daughter is acting out in sexually inappropriate ways. secretly she looks at porn she calls single lines. she was sending e-mail porn back n forth with school mate and she seems to have no remorse. She is 15 and low self esteem( I already figured the molestation probibility is high if this is your first thought. waht else?
2006-07-31 22:42:30 · 4 answers · asked by guru gal from socal 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Molestation of course, and besides the singles line, I don't really see any of this as inappropriate. Curiosity about sex is completely normal and looking at porn won't get her pregnant or a disease. Have you sat her down to have a frank discussion about sex?
2006-07-31 22:49:45 · answer #1 · answered by Kanga_tush2 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dear, if you think your daughter was molested, find out right away! She'd NEED to talk about this and not let it ruin her life.
OR maybe she's been allowed to view sexually explicit material for so long, it doesnt bother her concious. This is so dangerous, cause porn is addictive and poisonous to the mind. Its gonna stunt her growth. Her grades and morals will go down. She's probably gonna have sex soon, if shes not already masterbating.
As a mother im sure you're scared. I'd be terrified! I am for you!
Talk to her!!! DOnt accuse, but let her know you love her and she can be honest without judgement. She is gonna need a healthy activity that will keep this off the mind, any sports (ballet, gymnastics, soccer or whatever she loves) and NO COMPUTER OR INTERNET. And know her associations! Cause im sure she's gettin this from them too...talk with their parents.
Keep trying with her, dont give up.
2006-08-01 05:53:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its time to grow alongside the young woman. Denying and controlling her will have short-term benefits for you perhaps but every day and week she is reaching the point all kids seek, the day of majority and self responsibility. If her memories of the lst 300 to 900 days of her teens is a battle royale with mom no one wins here. Especially you. She's the one with life ahead of her, guide her away from the dangers but don't put her on a short leash then let her go on her 18th birthday. Everyday should be a lesson in life. You wil only see the results of good efforts 5 years from now.
2006-08-01 06:03:52 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing is wrong.. its natural... shes growing up and wants to feel more mature... and doesnt wanna feel left outta anything
2006-08-01 05:48:32 · answer #4 · answered by Rachel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋