every week there are 2 days she spends 1 day at my parents home and the other day at her parents home?

Question

every friday we have to go to my parents home till 9 at night so now she tells me that tit for tat she also has to go to her parents home on my side i dont mind her going but whenever she goes she comes back different they manipulate her mind with ideas which are not good so me i am thinking of shifting to a far away place far from my family and far from her family and then never to let her go to her parents home nor my parents if she does go we go together just for a few 20 minuites and then we go back to our homes and we go back to our homes peacefully without this or that

Answer 1

Why are you spending so much time at your parents home? Maybe you should keep her busy instead. Take her out to do things. Or make her get a job. It does not sound healthy spending so much time out side of a marriage at ones parents home.

Answer 2

Hey,
It appears your wife only started going to her parent's home because you always took her to your family every friday. Dont you know that in marriage, a man has to leave his mother and father and be joined to his wife and the two become one? I think that you should break the monotone of visiting your family and focus on each other. Friday evening are for socialising! Why not make a date with her every friday? Make her feel special. Build your own specials. It is good for your marriage.

Answer 3

Hey child. What is the crap every Friday you have to go to your parents? Are your married or not? You don't have to go anywhere except with your wife. If she is going to her parents go with her. Gee she goes with you to your parents.

I really think it is time for you to grow up and start being a husband instead of your parents son.

Answer 4

hey Zingazunga!

u seem completely not relaxed with ur wife.

if it's possible for u to move and that won't coast u alot then give it a try.

but i dont know if it's a real solution!!!

god be with u!