They are really going to be upset!
It is true, but I doubt they will ever believe it...! Strangely I have never been attracted to females, and I am not attracted to guys anymore...
2006-07-31 21:31:29 · 33 answers · asked by Someone... 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Being perfectly honest, my fetish is to watch two beautiful females making love. I believe two women making love are actually performing beautiful art.
2006-08-04 04:21:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
I can't believe that there are so many here who haven't heard of asexuality.
You're quite entitled to not give a hoot about anyone, that way. As for your parents, they'll live with the glimmer of hope that the right woman will come along (bla bla bla)...
As for how they'll react well, if you're not doing anything because you don't care to, then they don't need to know - except that you might get sick of answering why you've not made them grandparents, lol!
I hope you live a fulfilled life with no regrets of what mght have been.
Take Care.
2006-07-31 23:42:52 · answer #2 · answered by unclefrunk 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it just is a momentary passage of your life with some doubt and uncertainty.
Therefore it’s not the right time to talk with relatives now.
How old are you?
I hope you’re young so your relatives realize it’s soon to ask for some facts or just being in hurry for them! As well as your tendency will be clear, then anything will become easier for we all. Good Luck!
2006-07-31 23:23:33 · answer #3 · answered by whole_feelings 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wish I knew your age. However if you have had stress in your life, it can change your whole being your emotions everything.
Don't worry too much about it all right now..give yourself some time and see if your choice changes in anyway. If you feel as if you might need some counseling at a later date, choose one that is open minded about Gay Issues. Don't go to one that will tell you "How confused you are about your sexual orientation." God Made you the way you are! Don't doubts about it!
God Bless you honey, don't stress about it. You will be ok!
judy in Idaho
2006-07-31 21:53:42 · answer #4 · answered by Wind In her Hair 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ermm, the mistake that a load of people make is to define their sexuality by which gender they prefer to sleep with. I dont, i go by the person with whom i feel most comfortable wiht at that point in time. what i am trying to say is you should not have to convince your parents of anything... you just have not found that person that makes your heart skip a beat. or you have and you are feeling bad about it...
2006-08-01 15:17:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You dont need to convince your parents to the fact that you are not attracted to either sex. why convince them when its genuine? wait until the time is right or when they find out themselves. if you want medical attention then its best to sit down with your GP and then ask him/her to actually tell them on your behalf. most importantly though, be there and be willing to answer any questions they might have whatsover. convincing them by yourself may not help anyways. get your Gp talk to him/her first. second step get him to talk to your parents in your absence and tell them not to ask you anything untill they have come to terms with your ordeal, then go to the gp this time with your parents and try to find a workable medical solution or somewhere there. goodluck - you will need it.
2006-07-31 23:50:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fear not.
You have tested the water and you didn't like it.
There is nothing wrong with being an 'old fashioned bachelor', or spinster.
I know a few guys that are very happy living by their selves.
A real plus is. 'Look a the hassle you won't get.'
As for your parents, they might have an opinion, but it is YOUR decision.
2006-07-31 23:09:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ive never heard of someone not being attracted to any gender, but what do I know...what exactly are you attracted to...maybe then we can help you.
2006-07-31 21:57:36 · answer #8 · answered by lildevilchild_87 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen do what you feel is rigth; why is it important to you get approval from your parents about who you are attracted to or not attracted to as in your case?
if you are happy with yourself for being asexual then so be it.
2006-07-31 21:38:13 · answer #9 · answered by gwad_is_a_myth 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anymore? Well, it is probaly just a phase. I wouldn't break any type of news because maybe you are just not into either at the moment. Wait it out.
2006-08-01 03:15:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't understand the issue. What business is it of theirs? They did/do their thing without your consent. You do the same. If they are nagging about a grandchild, tell them it will happen IF it happens. And leave it at that. No big deal. You seem to be more concerned about it that they.
2006-08-01 03:18:38 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋