So my motto is . .I could do better but I don't want to bother to. Am I slightly depressed or am I wise and adaptive?
2006-07-31 21:26:03 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Sociology
Yes, I am fat.
2006-07-31 21:41:12 · update #1
You Receive...What You Give!
If You Give Nothing...You Get Nothing Back!
Your's is not a good Motto to have!...You need friends &/or family to share your innermost feelings with! You need to recognize & pursue Your Interests in Life, whatever they may be!?
I'm sure You've heard the slogan: " No Man is an Island."?...Simply stated, it means No Woman or Man can Exist entirely by Themself!
I do think you're somewhat Depressed...just by having These Feelings!...But, You're showing You're Wise-Enough to Realize there's something "Wrong-Going-On" & by Posting this Question...it seems like You're willing to Adapt Somehow to make Yourself feel better!
Talk to Someone You Trust!...and can Confide-In...Whether a Friend or Family member...Just explain exactly how you feel...You will relieve yourself of many bad feelings - just by airing them!
If You are still in School...You could speak to a Guidance Counsellor, or a Teacher you like & trust...Your Doctor, whoever.
Nothing will change Unless you decide a change is Needed...So, Make That Call!...to the Person you feel most comfortable talking with...it could change your Whole Way-of-Thinking!
You do not sound Desperate, by any means...Just need Someone You can Confide In!
2006-07-31 21:29:03 · answer #1 · answered by AlbertaGuy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you may be more than slightly depressed. Have a capsule of St. John's Wort and try to do a little self-analysis. Asking this question was actually a good start.
You don't really "go look for friends." You go look for something to do, and fall into conversation with the people you meet while doing it. Go to a game store and ask for a demonstration of one of the games. Take a class in something you want to learn to do. Attend a local art fair or show and talk to the creative people, and to their patrons (that's just people who buy their works). And the same is true whether you are looking for same sex friends or opposite sex friends; whether you are "looking for" romance or friendship.
Get out there and do what looks like it might be interesting. If you don't have any ideas at all, start in a good bookstore. (I met one of my all-time favorite boyfriends browsing in the original Borders in Ann Arbor in the early 1970s.)
2006-08-01 04:36:01 · answer #2 · answered by auntb93again 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are too lazy in visiting your friend then you will be lazy doing your own task. Friends are so precious, if you have them keep them cos its not easy finding a good one.
Secondly, the issue of not bothered in looking for a boyfriend is out of it, you don't have to look for one, if you miss up with the right people you will always get or see a good boyfriend in one of them.
take care
2006-08-01 06:01:35 · answer #3 · answered by funny 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are just lazy. Are you expecting friends to just show up on your doorstep, or fall into your lap?
If you want friends you have to be willing to make some effort. Friendship is a two way street.
2006-08-01 04:31:23 · answer #4 · answered by Oblivia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you want a guy with out going to look for one then advertise on a dating service.
A REAL ONE, where you list qualities, likes and dislikes.
Then you pretend that you are fishing and just wait for some sucker to bite the bait...
2006-08-01 06:13:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am recluse and perfectly normal, I dont find it hard to make friends I'm just not very interested in talking to people especially in groups, people dont listen, they wait for their chance to speak. I do have a girlfriend though and I wouldnt be without her, so id recommend getting a blokey.
2006-08-01 04:32:19 · answer #6 · answered by Octavius 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably you are waiting for "the right person" - but are you quite sure there is one???? In the meantime,try to have some fun with what comes along...at the end we all end up with whoever is around :)
2006-08-01 04:34:14 · answer #7 · answered by Alien G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is called being reclusive. I think you are slightly depressed but a lot of us are so I wouldn't worry about it.
2006-08-01 04:29:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm....I think U r quite confused....
As u r confused u dont want to bother much, as u may get more confused.....
So be practical...and think again about changin ur motto.....it will surely wardoff ur confusion...
2006-08-01 04:33:36 · answer #9 · answered by frizzy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would say sitting in front of a computer for hours on end has sapped you of your energy.. i would say you are depressed that you imagination cannot come up with any ideas how to get up off that chair and go outside.
2006-08-01 04:31:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋