or we should go for our parents opinion?
2006-07-31 21:05:35 · 18 answers · asked by gc 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Neither,just date.
2006-07-31 21:09:26 · answer #1 · answered by master_der_man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love Marriage
2006-08-01 15:05:20 · answer #2 · answered by SunFlower 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For some people love marriage is the best.
For others, arranged marriage may be a better option.
So, absolutely, which is better?
The essence is not in the mechanism of the marriage BUT in the commitment to the marriage.
In love marriage, you love a person that is why you marry him/her.
In arranged marriage, you marry a person, then you learn to love him/her.
Strange as it may seems today, arranged marriage was a norm in some countries in the past and it had served its days.
Today, love marriage is the norm.
In the distant future, when history look back at our society, it may be equally shocking to our future fellow humans the things we do today.
In the future, marriage may become arranged again but this time, by the all powerful neural computers.
2006-08-01 04:27:50 · answer #3 · answered by ideaquest 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Both are equally fine, both have their pros and cons. success of marriage depends upon the mental maturity/mindset of individuals and not on the path. as said, love is blind, most of the time, even people presume they had fell in love, which later on turns out nothing but infactuation, or say attraction for opposite sex, if both the parties are mature enough to know their responsibilities/needs etc., etc., then love marriage, is o.k. as regard, arrange marriage, here too, time has changed, now, arrange marriage don't simply mean that your parents had searched your partner & you are forced to marry. Infact, now, parents search the partner and its upto you to know each other, act maturily it comes with a guarantee that the parents had verified credentials of opposite parties, & in the event of unfortunate failure at least you are sure that you are not alone, the family will be there. Arranged is better, as marriage not only affects the people in question but affects their whole family in a big way. so arranged with consent of male and female is better.
2006-08-01 04:30:26 · answer #4 · answered by geminipardeep 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Arranged marriage. In case you are in love with somebody, better to marry with parents approval.
2006-08-01 04:14:41 · answer #5 · answered by Jose T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should always consider parents opinion, because from experience they know best for us! But love marriage obviously feels better but arranged marriage can sometimes last longer.
2006-08-01 04:10:02 · answer #6 · answered by trushka 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was a victim of arranged marriage, and regret it every single day. You are forced to marry and learn to love a partner for life.
How is that possible? You cant force love or learn to love, you have to fall in love....
I am trapped in an unfulfilling, unhappy marriage for 13 years now, and although I am in love with another man I cant get a divorce because of the kids and my responsibilities, because society and culture wont accept it..
Point I am trying to make is don't rush into marriage. Take your time and discover what it is you truly want out of a marriage, out of a lifetime partner. Experience life....
I was 19 when I got married and didn't discover what I wanted out of life, out of marriage out of a man till i reached my 30's.
Live your life, discover what its like to truly love and truly be loved back in return...The only time to consider marriage is when you mutually cant stand to ever live apart.
Good luck.
2006-08-01 04:19:01 · answer #7 · answered by Spellbinder 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love marriage is better, how can you love someone you do not even know just cos your parents approve. It's all in the past. You have to marry a mate of your choice.
2006-08-01 04:13:35 · answer #8 · answered by mwilaeuzaih 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Without a doubt I would say a love marriage... Living together or trying to create your own family is already hard, if you love each other at least you have something to hold on to.
2006-08-01 04:12:49 · answer #9 · answered by aleena 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely the love marriage. You should marry someone because you love that person and want to spend the rest of your lives together not marry because someone told you too.
2006-08-01 08:11:07 · answer #10 · answered by spoiledrotten 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually it depends on our mindset. I 'm saying this because everyday you are hearing more & more divorces irrespective of their marriage type. To me arranged is the better one provided we should choose our partner. Atleast then we could blame only ourself in case of a breakup.
2006-08-01 04:17:31 · answer #11 · answered by deisel s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋