many guys have offered me to be their gfrnd but idont want 2 be people say tht im vry selective but i really don't know tht wht should i do cause 1 guy is really serious about me but im not
2006-07-31 20:29:51 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Then you dont
2006-07-31 20:32:47 · answer #1 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u sound young and i dont know if this advice will help u. if you want a boyfriend and have a real relationship u should pick the one that cares about u. Mainly because if you went out with the guy that really isnt serious about you and you liked him alot and ur feelings grow for him there is a chance he might break your hart. If you really dont feel the same way about the one who cares then you shouldn't go out with him because you could end up breaking his hart.Pick the person carefully and try not to get your hart broken or anyone elses because i just had to go through it a month ago and its the worst pain anyone could go through and i wouldn't wish it on you or the guys who like you
2006-07-31 20:42:02 · answer #2 · answered by thechase500 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
relationship need both sides. if you are not sure, then tell him, that you need some time to think about for the next step. but right now, just be friends, hang out with him as a friend, and no jealousy.
you will know him better, his personality, motivation, etc etc
then in the future, if you feel much comfortable with him, you can start a serious relationship
2006-07-31 20:43:24 · answer #3 · answered by David D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yet you do, my pal :) in case you may open your heart and convey the words i such as you to her, and she or he respects that, the different communication is small while in comparison with what you already talked to her approximately. via relationship, i'm assuming you imply- friendship? and subsequently you sense so in tension approximately this? by using fact, i'm guessing you meant it in i such as you.. love love, and she or he took the thoughts as in friendship, care sort of affection? then you do have a delicate issue, you should clearify what you meant once you stated those words, as she would have misinturrpted your thoughts. yet you stated you the two outfitted a stable relationship, so going to her including your thoughts, should not be hard in any respect by using fact the inspiration for information has already been general. What you should do is be straightforward with your self to boot as her. desirable desires, Dana
2016-12-14 17:20:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the feelings are not returned by both partners, then they shouldn't be a couple. If you don't return the feelings, but he becomes your boyfriend, you'll feel bad because of that. It will hurt him too. It will feel like you're relastionship is based on a lie. Save yourself from breaking hearts and wait for someone you can fall for.
2006-07-31 20:36:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you dont want then you are not ready and dont listen to what people say.. Just wait until you have found the right person.. What you are doing is not wrong .. if someone is interested in you and you are not then just be honest with him n tell him to stop..
2006-07-31 20:35:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweetie, jump in and get your feet wet.
you don't have to jump into a relationship - just do a light date or 2 first, get to know the person and see if you like them enough to be closer.
Know your boundaries - tell them you're not sure if you want to be serious but you'd be willing to go out a few times to get to know them first and take it from there.
what's the harm in that?
2006-07-31 20:39:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well maybe you havent find the right person yet. Just wait for the right guy and dont rush into things.
2006-07-31 20:34:16 · answer #8 · answered by wittlewabbit 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, if your not feeling the guy then tell him you just want to be friends. or maybe get to know him a little bit better and you may change your mind . but go with what your heart and mind tells you not by what other people tell you!
2006-07-31 20:45:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i think u shud take ur own time...afterall whts teh hurry....and choose a guy if at all u want to...who u think is the right one.
2006-07-31 20:38:16 · answer #10 · answered by gaurav_talkies 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, going out w/ someone just cuse "they like me" isn't really smart... I mean, it'll be a really bad relationship if one person liked the other, while the other didn't. So follow your heart- NO
2006-07-31 20:33:56 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋