Ok i emailed this guy from my church, and he's like the onyl guy friend i have, and i asked him if he liked me only as a friend or maybe if he liked me a little more, and i told him that he could say that he didn't like me 'that way' and it would be ok with me...and his response was "well, i'm not all that comfortable with dating..."
Okk...what does that mean (besides the fact he's uncomfortable) i mean cause i asked him how he felt about me, if he onnly liked me as a friend or maybe if he liked me a little more, and that was his response...what can i take from that, would that say that he likes me as a friend and thinks i want to date him so he's giving me a nice rejection, or...that he likes me a little more than a friend...HELP!!! and please give me clean serious answers, i really need some advice on what to do next as well!
2006-07-31 19:43:02 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Um, that's not quite the response I'd be looking forward to from a guy I liked. Did he just turn 16? I know some of the guys I dated when I finally turned 16 were scared out of their minds.
I'd email him back and be like, "Ya, that's cool that you don't feel that way about me....yada yada yada". Then see what his response is. If he's like WAIT NO!! Then you know his answer :-)
CTR!
2006-07-31 19:47:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
ok sorry no he dont want to date you he just likes you as a friend but you can change that by making yourself know and by makeing him fill confortable around you a women can get what she wants as long as she plays her cards the right way he just scared so make him fell un scared slowly
2006-07-31 19:50:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah rite he's giving u a nice rejection,bt atleast u should be thankful cause he has bin honest to you,he don't give u false hope same like other guy out der.I know its hard to have dat filing dat the 1 your loving is not filing the same way,but dats life we don't easily get wat we really wants. Just believe dat God has purpose on everything......Hope I help!!
2006-07-31 19:50:41 · answer #3 · answered by kimy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So ask him again.....be direct. Say " would you like to date or not cos if you are just nervous about it all then let's give it a go rather than not do it at all"......
2006-07-31 19:47:18 · answer #4 · answered by famousfieldy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's into the Church and not you but don't be upset he just wants God.That not bad,usually it's another woman.Give him his space,if he wants love you'll know.
2006-07-31 19:48:50 · answer #5 · answered by master_der_man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he might be very old school.. he might believe courting with escorts are more appropriate.. Many people that are very religious think that.. ask him about it..
2006-07-31 19:48:31 · answer #6 · answered by LokoLobo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yo email me what stake?
placentia?
pleez do tell cuz im mormon tooo
2006-07-31 19:46:44 · answer #7 · answered by →»£a Ðëê Ðéê «← 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on, i know this guy, he's gay...
2006-07-31 19:48:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋