i love basketball ive pliyed for about 13 years but it right now more than ever is taking alot of my time.... of course my bf is getting upset should i lay off ball for a while or just talk to him about it and try to make him understand?
2006-07-31 19:00:49 · 10 answers · asked by cassie 1 in Sports ➔ Basketball
thats stupid why would i be making this up and yes for your info. i do wanna play pro ball.... jackass ugh if you didnt like the question you didnt have to answer!> dahs!
2006-07-31 19:18:30 · update #1
??? How much of your time can it be taking? Are you thinking of playing pro-ball? Didn't your play before you had a boyfriend? I don't see what your problem is here.
Are you just making this up?
2006-07-31 19:09:21 · answer #1 · answered by Dahs 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Coming from a girl, I'd say it really depends if you really love him or not, Have you ever thought about taking some days off of basketball for your boyfriend? Like try to balance the two out.
That's one solution.
But on the other hand I'd have to agree that pursuing your passion is more important, and if he really respects you he'd understand, I mean wonder if yall breakup, and you'll be wondering what if I had stuck to my dream, where'd I be now?
After all, the saddest thing is life is wasted talent.
2006-08-01 04:10:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
CONTINUE PLAYING! throwing away 13 years is not worth it for a boy. there are better guys out there. if he truely loves you, he wouldn't be getting upset about the time you spend on trying to make it to pro ball. career first, then love. trust me, i'm going through almost the same thing as you are.
2006-08-01 23:04:34 · answer #3 · answered by Kimi N 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
since this is a basketball forum with mostly guys, i'm guessing alsmost every answer would be the same. stick with basketball. talk to your boyfriend. if he loves you he will respect your passion for the sport. i bet a lot of females would say that basketball is just a game and you should stick with your boyfriend. you will make the right decision. good luck!
2006-08-01 03:03:32 · answer #4 · answered by Akeja 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i had the same problem..and idecided for my bf..i realized that i played basketball for a long time achieved a lot and i wanted to be a mum once not a player for the rest of my life..so this was my deccission..and we broke up with my ex a few month after lol good luck to you
2006-08-01 05:40:35 · answer #5 · answered by zuzana z 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow, I expected a guy to be the one to have that dilemma, but it goes both ways. I would enjoy my passion and play ball. If he really loves you, he will understand.
2006-08-01 02:05:55 · answer #6 · answered by LW 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
doesn't he support your playing ball? for me its a big bonus for a girl to be able to play basketball well. maybe he is upset because your better than him. haha. good luck
2006-08-01 05:42:15 · answer #7 · answered by pyeung242 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
s u shud.. but dont stop playing basket ball for the sake of satisfying him.. do continue playing.. talk to him frankly abt this matter and make him encourage to play
2006-08-01 02:08:43 · answer #8 · answered by Rocky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't let him enter fear with ur DREAMS i had a boyfriend just like that that means yall r not made 4 either
2006-08-04 18:50:30 · answer #9 · answered by JJ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
follow your dream. Basketball. If he really cares about you he should let you follow your dream
2006-08-01 10:29:22 · answer #10 · answered by gg 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋